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WOW....ok I didn't expect this to happen.  

whoisagentj 54M
663 posts
5/11/2019 6:12 am

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5/14/2019 2:24 pm

WOW....ok I didn't expect this to happen.


Well...now I'm a bit befuddled.

In regards to this past Sunday when I got stood up by a member here, I messaged her here to tell her how disappointed I was that she stood me up. However...yesterday, she got my message and read it, and messaged me back.

"Hey, I very much appreciate for giving me benefit of doubt. Honestly, I came to the Starbucks on Sunday, since the Horny.net gave me trouble I couldnt access or message you either. Regarding posting a blog I did and I didnt read any of your messages - as it wasnt inboxed. When I cleared the cache and reloaded the browser, all your messages are pouring in and I feel very disgusted.
I am not what you think I am. All I can say now is "I apologize from the bottom of my heart" I do not know how to repair what went by but certainly agree with you that it went terribly wrong. Once again any amount of sorry's will not make you feel good but trust me. I do feel terrible and It wasn't intentional. "


So...apparently she did go, and I somehow missed her as I was moving from two different Starbucks to see if she was at the other one. And thanks to Horny.net, they fucked up my messages so she never got them, and she thought I stood her up, but once she refreshed her browser, all the messages I sent from last week came in. So thanks to Horny.net, they helped fuck up our meet.

So I made a judgement call after reading this, and I decided to give her another chance.

Here's what I sent to her:

Look...I'll be honest here. After taking some time to think about it, and reading your message, I feel I came down a bit hard on you.
I believe people can make mistakes, and if you would like, I would be willing to give you a second chance, if you want it.
I believe that everyone deserves a second chance. However, that's up to you. And I think if you do want a second chance, then if you are willing, if you would like to give me your number, I'm willing to call you and we can make arrangements to set up a meet in which will work for both of us.

What do you say?


She still hasn't responded yet, but for now...but I'm willing to give this a second try if she is.

I'm really not happy with Horny.net, but what do you guys think? Should I give her a second chance if she asks for it? Or am I setting myself up for disappointment?

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
5/11/2019 12:20 pm

So both of you didnt know what Starbucks to meet at? You went to another one? I guess I am a bit baffled at that. But anyhow, hope you two can finally meet.


whoisagentj replies on 5/14/2019 2:24 pm:
Here's the thing. She asked me to meet at the Starbucks nearest to a train station in Chicago. So I went to that one, but it was closed on Sunday. The next nearest open one was about another 1/2 mile away. So I went to that one. As I went to that one, she went to the one that was closed when I was at the other Starbucks that was open, and then she thought I didn't show. After she got back home, she refreshed her browser, and all of the messages I sent her flooded in and she realized we missed each other.

As it has been stated a couple of time, we should have gotten each other's numbers instead of using this app to meet up. Since then, I'm waiting for her to reply back, that is if she replies back that she wants to talk and meet. Right now, there is still a bit of trust issues from both of us, because she thinks I stood her up, and I thought she stood me up. However, since that time, I gave her my mobile number so she can contact me. Which is where things have been left at this time.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/11/2019 11:33 am

PS I forgot, how is your mother doing? What's happening Mother's Day?

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whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 2:38 pm:
I got some Hershey Bars with Almonds, some gummy bears, and I'll be getting KFC for her tomorrow as the whole family should be here.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/11/2019 11:32 am

Have plan c in place!! 1 more chance and that's it. Blaming the site, even with all it's poor tech issues,is not right. But at least she tried to apologize. Luck!

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whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 2:37 pm:
Well, I can see that the site might have caused it, but it was more her not refreshing her browser which caused it. And I'm all about second chances.

lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
5/11/2019 10:49 am

From past experience and knowing the ways and means of these sites, NEVER trust the site to make these connections, as Redrock and others have said exchange phone numbers, have a simple conversation, at least some text off site, good luck , give her one more strike, then call her out, don't go to three..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 2:36 pm:
100 percent agreed.

qrst50 73M

5/11/2019 8:08 am

be patient - if nothing happens - make a plan b and a plan c- if those fail - go fishing- lol


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 9:21 am:
I think plan c is to get my tackle box ready in case plan B fails. LOL!

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
5/11/2019 7:44 am

I use K ik for further communication exchange...i don't have to give my real phone number from the get-go...but i don't have to worry about someone has my phone number, and the things did not go well...but that's just me...of course, there are people who don't do k ik at all, so there is that, too...but


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 9:20 am:
I've tried K ik before, and unfortunately, it's also kind of shoddy. I've had some messages not make it to the other person. So it's iffy at best.

dogslife2live01 71M

5/11/2019 7:27 am

exchange numbers... that way you can stop thinking and start acting
like take life in your hands don't depend on Horny.net to do everything

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 9:19 am:
Well, I left it with her to give me her number, depending if she wants to take that second chance I gave her. If she's willing, then I'm willing.

philobulos 59M
46 posts
5/11/2019 6:44 am

its a good idea if your actually meeting to go ahead and exchange cell numbers
internet is notoriously unreliable period
and so is the IM etc here


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 7:16 am:
Well....lesson learned for me at least.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/11/2019 6:43 am

The problem is neither of you spoke on the phone - you know actual voices speaking to each other. In business it is referred to as 'due diligence'.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 7:16 am:
Well, I think that was part of the problem. I believe we should have traded phone info ahead of time, but I thought things were already set. Going forward, I think that's how I will operate going forward.

12211male 60M/54F

5/11/2019 6:30 am

That’s why we never rely on our inbox messages if we plan to meet..We never meet without first exchanging numbers first..


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 7:13 am:
I think that was part of the problem. Both of us were relying on this site for communication and the site failed us. So I'm going to try it one more time and see what happens.

Dom4Sub1962 61M

5/11/2019 6:26 am

Well from my experience on this site i'd take it with a pinch of salt, I joined and get inbox after inbox from the usa when i'm in the uk and then I get a few inbox from the uk who say they are in my city but turn out to be more than 3 hrs away?
not sure if the women are charged to join the site but it's the usual BS milk a guys bank account for diddly squat, but what can you do! if you think your in then play to win. good luck or a miracle we all need one on here brother!.


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 7:12 am:
That's happened to me as well. And I don't know if I'm fully in with her. But I'm at least willing to give this a second shot.

bitchkitty2017 71F

5/11/2019 6:20 am

so if she cleared her cache so messages could come in how is it the sites fault ? I clear at the end of every session here ..if some dont and that fails to let messages pass or not get sent then i would say its the persons fault , more than anything.


whoisagentj replies on 5/11/2019 7:11 am:
True. I do believe it was her fault for not clearing her browser that day. So I'm kinda not 100 percent on her excuse. But, I'm still willing to give a person a second chance, because everyone deserves at least one.

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
5/11/2019 6:12 am

Not sure what to think here....

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


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