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Sexual Fantasies of Men and Women  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10139 posts
2/24/2019 11:10 am
Sexual Fantasies of Men and Women

Sexual fantasies are 'normal' to have. Most adults have them and yes there are differences in what women and men fantasize about.

Brett Kahr, a British psychotherapist and author of Who’s Been Sleeping In Your Head? analyzed the sexual fantasies of more than 20,000 British and American adults. His study revealed that many people fantasize as a way to lift their spirits, and a means of exploring sexual activities they can't achieve in real life.

One stat that really stood out is that about 90 percent of adults fantasize about someone other than the person they’re having sex with and for a substantial amount of time.

Here are some other interesting findings:
>41 percent imagine sex with someone else’s partner (75 percent of people think this one trait makes you more attractive)
>39 percent think about sex with a work colleague
>25 percent (particularly men and younger people) fantasize about celebrities
>18 percent of women fantasize about sex with two or more men

A team of scientists at the University of Montreal explored some of the differences between the sexual fantasies men have compared to women. The scientists polled 1,517 adults about their sexual fantasies and published the findings in the Journal of Sexual Medicine,
>Women were found to fantasize more about having sex in a specific location or with a stranger
>Men fantasized more about anal sex and receiving oral sex.
>Both men and women were about equal when it came to fantasizing about participating in group sex.

The conclusion of the experts? Having a strong sexual fantasy life can actually enhance your romantic relationship rather than weaken it.

Do you agree with the experts? Should fantasies be discussed with your partner?





sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 11:17 am

Not everyone may be comfortable discussing their fantasies. However, according to the experts it's important to do so with your partner.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/24/2019 11:30 am

Great blog this morning, but I have to say it doesn't describe me one bit. As I am wired a bit differently. For example say im watching porn, or someone getting it on. I fantasize about my hubby and I doing it that way.

I never have thought about doing it with my friends man or woman for that matter. I wonder how much they spent on this study of sexual fantasies, and I see they polled over 1500 people about it, that's not a lot.

This was great information hun and what better place to share it than here, as this is a sex site and people like things that are related to sex. I hope you are enjoying a peaceful Sunday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
2/24/2019 11:40 am

Yeah, it doesn't fit me well either. no to celebrities, co-workers no, they are 98% male, lol. Friends spouses or love interests, can't go there either. I just realized that I am a prude.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 11:43 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Great blog this morning, but I have to say it doesn't describe me one bit. As I am wired a bit differently. For example say im watching porn, or someone getting it on. I fantasize about my hubby and I doing it that way.

    I never have thought about doing it with my friends man or woman for that matter. I wonder how much they spent on this study of sexual fantasies, and I see they polled over 1500 people about it, that's not a lot.

    This was great information hun and what better place to share it than here, as this is a sex site and people like things that are related to sex. I hope you are enjoying a peaceful Sunday..
You are right. It wasn’t a huge sample in the Montreal study but the other one had 20,000 which is significant!
Thank you 🙏 for being open and sharing your perspective.
Here we are under wind and blowing snow advisories. There are concerns about potential damage and power outages. So far, the lights blinked off and came back on immediately.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 11:45 am

    Quoting HoHowdy:
    Yeah, it doesn't fit me well either. no to celebrities, co-workers no, they are 98% male, lol. Friends spouses or love interests, can't go there either. I just realized that I am a prude.
That’s what’s interesting about studies-having people refute the results!
Thanks 🙏 for sharing your perspective.


squirtlover92 61M
36 posts
2/24/2019 12:17 pm

If you have the right partner you can discuss anything with them. That’s the best way to know about them. If you truly love and care for each other you would understand and never judge each other.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 12:31 pm

    Quoting squirtlover92:
    If you have the right partner you can discuss anything with them. That’s the best way to know about them. If you truly love and care for each other you would understand and never judge each other.
Yes that certainly makes sense 👍
Thanks 🙏 for stopping by.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/24/2019 12:40 pm

Thank you for the great blog.

THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG


mc_justmc 63M

2/24/2019 2:17 pm

Sharing our fantasies enhanced my relationship with my last wife but in the end I think it was just another brick in the wall that came between us.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/24/2019 6:12 pm

Nope... I Can't relate to any of the answers.
Sure.. Discussing your fantasies with your partner sounds like a lot of fun. Although, I don't know, if my business partner, would appreciate them.
Perhaps, I should discuss them, with my lover, instead... 🤔


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 6:31 pm

Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for dropping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 6:32 pm

    Quoting  :

Always nice to see studies being validated by real people. Quite the opposite of those who like to refute them.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 6:34 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Sharing our fantasies enhanced my relationship with my last wife but in the end I think it was just another brick in the wall that came between us.
No doubt it can be a risk to share fantasies. Thanks for sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 7:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Agree, that yes, it can be 'risky'. However, how can you have open, honest communication and exclude them? Thanks for dropping my and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/24/2019 7:25 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Nope... I Can't relate to any of the answers.
    Sure.. Discussing your fantasies with your partner sounds like a lot of fun. Although, I don't know, if my business partner, would appreciate them.
    Perhaps, I should discuss them, with my lover, instead... 🤔
LOL. Unless your business partner is also your lover, it could be a very awkward and unappreciated conversation


Solfan55 69M
500 posts
2/25/2019 5:34 am

Great post, thanks for sharing sexyldy! I think we all have fantasies but the ability to share them (or not) with your partner is the key issue.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/25/2019 6:15 am

    Quoting Solfan55:
    Great post, thanks for sharing sexyldy! I think we all have fantasies but the ability to share them (or not) with your partner is the key issue.
Thank you 🙏.
Yes I agree. The ability to openly discuss fantasies with your partner is important.


Apollorising58 63M

2/25/2019 7:35 pm

Great information and the study hints at the truth!

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sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/25/2019 7:56 pm

    Quoting Apollorising58:
    Great information and the study hints at the truth!
Always interesting when the information in studies can be validated, even if only a hint, by real people. Thanks for dropping by and commenting.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/26/2019 7:10 am

Hmmmm 🤔 thought this subject would have generated more interest. Perhaps I didn’t ask the right question 🤷‍♀️


RoughStuff247 45M
12 posts
3/25/2019 7:35 pm

I agree with the sexperts.... I would anticipate their generalize conclusions...

Good blog info....


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
3/25/2019 8:04 pm

    Quoting RoughStuff247:
    I agree with the sexperts.... I would anticipate their generalize conclusions...

    Good blog info....
It’s interesting to get other’s reactions/opinions of ‘experts’. Thanks 🙏 for stopping by. You may want to take a look around at some of the other posts here.


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5/6/2019 11:51 pm

@ expert*z.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
5/7/2019 12:19 pm

If you don’t agree, what’s your opinion?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/17/2020 4:07 am

    Quoting  :

Yes it certainly can be.
Thanks for stopping by 😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
3/11/2020 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

As well as anything that may be ‘off limits’ .


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9607 posts
4/3/2020 11:34 pm

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