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Southfrkfshr 61M

1/15/2020 6:09 pm

Id have paid and be there! with bells on! (its an Idaho saying)


Southfrkfshr 61M

1/15/2020 6:10 pm

Your far to sexy!


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
1/15/2020 6:14 pm



Based on the stated parameters, yes.


mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
1/15/2020 6:24 pm

Yes, I would join her. As long as I didn't have other plans that interfered I would have no problem doing it on a whim... if it was planned then No Ghosting unless there was an emergency and I would tell her about it. I have had sex with women who approached me first, and it was very enjoyable. I always put effort into sex, unless I am really not feeling well and then I would try to reschedule. Why bother unless you are going to have fun and enjoy the time.


Sexforyounow4 62M
11 posts
1/15/2020 6:25 pm

I would love to meet a woman in a hotel room have sex and spend the night!


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
1/15/2020 6:30 pm

1- If your fwb/fb/casual partner/lover/whatever she is called paid for a hotel room would you join her if she asked?
Yes of course I would if I was available.
2- Would you join her if it was planned, or would you flake or ghost?
It was planned. Of course of course I would go.
-Shes paying for the room so you can have sex, and spend the night (if thats in the scope of your partnership).
I prefer to stay the night.
3- Would you have sex with a woman if she approached you first?
If I like the woman yes I would have sex with her.
4- And would you put effort into the sex?
I always put effort into the sex.


wantiall4now 58M

1/15/2020 6:31 pm

I would giver the best that she deserves


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
1/15/2020 6:31 pm

BTW If that is your picture above it is very nice.


6inchjoey 54M

1/15/2020 6:31 pm

If she planned it of course I show up And especially when you see something sexy like that pic a guy could cuddle that all night till morning or to she cant keep up


furry7890 51M

1/15/2020 6:34 pm

love that pussy


furry7890 51M

1/15/2020 6:35 pm

i would have been there


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
1/15/2020 6:43 pm

Miss Flower, I think you are asking a question you already have the answer to . Of course every guy will say they'll be there but, only a select few will actually show. But, you already know this right?


lookin4herMI 46M
152 posts
1/15/2020 6:53 pm

Yes I would join her, and not be said ghost, but also yes if she approached he, as I have! She initiated the entire meet, and without even seeing a pic I agreed to meet her based on her telling me she was worth it, and she even wore nothing, but a long coat, and heels. As far as effort goes I put my best thrust forward as she agreed to meet up with me again later down the road! Just as wild as the first time! Whew where did she go?


lookin4herMI 46M
152 posts
1/15/2020 6:55 pm

We were both in our 40’s also


shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
1/15/2020 6:55 pm

I would never ghost anyone.


SweetBighead23 26M

1/15/2020 6:57 pm

That's a fucking fantasy if a woman paid for a room so we could have hot steamy sex all night of course I'd be there.


ipatalp 61M
11 posts
1/15/2020 6:58 pm

Yes but only if we can do it again in the morning.


LickyouUp32 41M

1/15/2020 6:59 pm

I would be there for her


sasha3676 66F  
114 posts
1/15/2020 7:04 pm

I read your question like three times to make sure I understood.Why would any one ghost on her.In fact I can't understand the ghosting phenomenon at all.I kind of think it's for players.Ive never done it because it's a shitty thing to do.


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
1/15/2020 7:10 pm

Been there and done that, It can happen!! All one can do is smile!!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


fightfire365 53M
601 posts
1/15/2020 7:10 pm

I would definitely join. Nothing worse then people saying they will show up and never do.


Juststoppingby44 42M/30F

1/15/2020 7:24 pm

I think most men will answer this as a definite yes. Too bad reality doesn't seem to match.


dogslife2live01 71M

1/15/2020 7:25 pm

your fwb/fb/casual partner/lover/
now those are the keywords. they tell me it is a person i know, and have been intimate with... so yes! hell yes i would join her. and it would be a pleasant surprise... but not at three am.
and the only difference between twenty three, and forty three, would be the ability to answer he call after midnight....

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


60satisfaction 66M

1/15/2020 7:26 pm

It is hard for me to imagine receiving such an offer and then flaking out!


rinonuts1 57M

1/15/2020 7:31 pm

yes i would show up and give here the best dam ten seconds of her life because it would be so hot that as soon as i saw her i would nut just thinking of her on my face having the best mustache ride of her life.


goodgood123 41M
66 posts
1/15/2020 7:40 pm

Wow very sexy pic....
I for sure would join, but will book the room and invite her before she does that


stopbyandsayboo 52M
1295 posts
1/15/2020 8:20 pm

I would join her to answer your question but in the morning I would get up before her and pay for the room...The age of the person does not have ANY barrier for me in my decision

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


Mr00Fun4U 64M

1/15/2020 8:38 pm

Shit yeah...I would drop whatever I was doing and be there. You might have to pinch me to make sure I wasn't dreaming but a night away with the chance to stay with a beautiful Woman. Let the games begin.

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hardguy0051 72M
503 posts
1/15/2020 8:48 pm

Been there, done it... three or four times, I think. Twice we spent the night, twice the lady had to leave.

I did my best. They all left satisfied.


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
1/15/2020 8:55 pm

My comment was in response to your question: "If your fwb/fb/casual partner/lover/whatever she is called paid for a hotel room would you join her if she asked?"


Bud_Bot 47M
211 posts
1/15/2020 8:55 pm

My goodness Miss Flower!!!! Sexy photo! Looks like a great place to camp out for a while and enjoy

.If your fwb/fb/casual partner/lover/whatever she is called paid for a hotel room would you join her if she asked?
Absolutely yes!

Would you join her if it was planned, or would you flake or ghost?
I would join her being that it is planned. Ghosting is stupid

Shes paying for the room so you can have sex, and spend the night (if thats in the scope of your partnership).
I would stay the night. Morning sex is great!

Would you have sex with a woman if she approached you first? And would you put effort into the sex?
If the woman is my type, then yes I would have sex with her. I put effort into the sex every time. No reason not to.

Hope you are having a good Wednesday!


SendNemer3432 38F

1/15/2020 9:10 pm

Any lucky


Yours_4A_knight 59M

1/15/2020 9:17 pm

I am not attractive enough for this to ever happen to so when I say that of course I would go to her and with excitement and energy you have to take it with a grain of salt because I know that it is somewhat akin to writing the award acceptance speech for the screen play I will never finish.

In my mind do I imagine that happening . . .well the invitation for a night and morning of hot steamy sex . . not so much having the address the academy with a statue in hand but in reality I am not someone that women find attractive enough to make that kind of effort for or too extend that kind of invitation too.

To be totally honest, not only would I not have ghosted you, but I would seriously concider dropping what I was doing to join her even knowing I was the second or perhaps further back choice

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
1/15/2020 9:32 pm

If there were an initial attraction I would show up.

Thoughts from the Garden...


mike1958773 65M
945 posts
1/15/2020 10:45 pm

bella panorámica


xtita3 62M  
528 posts
1/16/2020 12:54 am


dogslife2live01 71M

1/16/2020 3:53 am

"I don't do late nights. Plus my life is busy, so I have an idea on when I'm ready for sexy time and would give you a day to a few weeks of a heads-up. "

nothing like planned spontaneous sex!

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Desir4Fire 49M
2387 posts
1/16/2020 4:24 am

Ms Flower,
If anyone was planning and paid for a room, not only would I be early and sitting in the lobby, but I would bring wine and chocolates.
Treat her to dinner then treat her like Desert.


ime4real 59M
492 posts
1/16/2020 7:46 am

Absolutely, i would join her.


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
1/16/2020 7:47 am

Of course II would show up. Even offer to split the bill. And I will never ghost someone, all too familiar with the pain it brings.


4thousandholes 49M

1/16/2020 7:53 am

I always show up. Never let anybody down


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/16/2020 8:36 am

OMG you are gorgeous..sexy!! You look great!! Sexy Body!!!!!!!


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/16/2020 12:39 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    OMG you are gorgeous..sexy!! You look great!! Sexy Body!!!!!!!
Oh Yes!! and you have motivated me to put nude photos of myself up on my Blog posts..every now and then. Hope you like!!


BIANCHI61956 68M
183 posts
1/17/2020 8:35 am

since I am a very available guy and the area I live in is a very large dead zone I come to this site to replenish my fantasy world and endure the frustration that a site like this produces..........when my frustration tank is full I get off line and go back to my real world..........there is too much smoke and no fire here.


hightops41 47M
810 posts
1/17/2020 12:58 pm

Yes and Yes and Yes that is a sexy pic


hornyhusband1969 55M
55 posts
1/19/2020 2:20 pm

of course I would show up and fuck her any way she'll let me. i like sex


GreenEyedGuy1968 55M
144 posts
1/19/2020 5:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes I would join her if she asked.
Yes, I would join her if it was planned.
I would have sex with a woman that approached me first. (Really?)
I would definitely give her my best effort, but especially if she's gone to all this trouble just for li'l ol' me.


cpl_fun2 38M/37F

1/20/2020 7:47 am

join, absolutly join


GreenEyedGuy1968 55M
144 posts
1/20/2020 9:02 am

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    Yes I would join her if she asked.
    Yes, I would join her if it was planned.
    I would have sex with a woman that approached me first. (Really?)
    I would definitely give her my best effort, but especially if she's gone to all this trouble just for li'l ol' me.
@ aflower2c "I'm getting the feeling that I need nee casual partners if this many guys say they would meet up. When men in kamloops cant even be bothered to meet up. Lol"

Come down south, Lady.
Find an American woman that would pay the bill and invite you to the room? (Not around here, maybe other areas). They pretty much expect the man to take care of everything. And the slimmer, better looking ones are even worse.

aflower2c: "I have learned to pay for my own room (due tk I'm the one that had to travel) because I had a couple of guys threaten to kick me out of the room ... just bad experiences, so now I watch out for myself.
I only meet in public places first. And it typically takes a couple of meet ups before I will have sex. Lessons learned that quick to sex meant BAD sex."

Okay... this begs the question... WHY?
I'm all over the statement of "I had a couple of guys threaten to kick me out of the room".
Can't imagine why, unless you left something important out?


toontownfunseeke 48M
14 posts
1/20/2020 12:32 pm

that's a sexy pic


GreenEyedGuy1968 55M
144 posts
1/20/2020 8:57 pm

aflower2c replies on 1/20/2020 1:14 pm:
"Remember that I'm native so some feel that they can treat me poorly and that it's completely in thier right to do so."

They're obviously ungrateful dumbasses. You look great for an old hag of 45.

Seriously, though... they're idiots.
You look great, definitely have sex appeal, look AWESOME in fishnets (which trust me, some ladies CAN NOT pull off) and you have a brain.
Sorry for your past experiences, but try not to let it color your future ones too much.


lovefiga 30M

1/21/2020 1:14 am

sure thing


SxyLatinJazz_4u 50M
157 posts
1/24/2020 1:41 pm

Here's a challenge... Yes but absolutely depends.

Most of the time I've had random offers like that it has been when I'm in a serious relationship. You know the saying, when it rains it pours.

When men are in a relationship, when are more blunt, more open, more ambitious, more incentivized. But if a man doesn't have a GF.

He rarely gets those offers.

Besides, if it feels too difficult to believe, most men feel that it's not real. We are conditioned otherwise. So, allow it to be more organic.

Say, want to meet for drinks, shall we get a hotel room... want to split the bill, once naked... you can tell him...not to worry... or you are happy... whether it is true or not, "work already paid for the room, I won the room in a raffle" and say it that way.

Otherwise, men wonder, "what's the catch". Are you video taping this ? The mind overtakes their horniess...yea it happens...

As for if they are already your friend and lover, if it is planned, that person is obviously not the friend and lover if they don't want to spend an evening with you especially if you have a fun evening planned out.
(even more so if they are single and available)


W3shoodhookup 53M
82 posts
1/25/2020 3:03 am

Mmmm mmmmm mmmm dayum that's mighty fine


canadianirish912 43M

1/25/2020 2:19 pm

You're absolutely gorgeous


Neon4pnp 46M
20 posts
1/26/2020 5:32 am

Based on the stated parameters, yes.

aflower2c replies on 1/15/2020 6:17 pm:
You would flake/ghost too then?

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mindworker1970 49M

319 posts
1/15/2020 6:24 pm
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Yes, I would join her. As long as I didn't have other plans that interfered I would have no problem doing it on a whim... if it was planned then No Ghosting unless there was an emergency and I would tell her about it. I have had sex with women who approached me first, and it was very enjoyable. I always put effort into sex, unless I am really not feeling well and then I would try to reschedule. Why bother unless you are going to have fun and enjoy the time.


Titnazzman11000 52M
21 posts
1/27/2020 3:33 am

Looks good enough to eat


Frausamans12 46M

1/27/2020 5:21 am

I’ve never ghosted but have paid for hotel to have woman cancel. If it’s planned I’d definitely go. On a side note the above mentioned lady made up for ghosting that first planned meeting so I guess it was worth it. Also why have sex if you’re not going to put forth your best effort.


ssebas2020 49M

1/27/2020 7:53 am

Very nice pic.


Cheftheman 42M
28 posts
1/27/2020 6:07 pm

I would never flake I would be there in a heartbeat


h4rry66 57M

1/28/2020 9:41 pm

Wow, is that pic you beautiful? So fuckable. I'm picturing lying between those legs. Thanks x


Fun1dc44 46M

1/29/2020 7:05 am

yes. And i absolutely hate ghosting- if you're not interested, why not just take 2 seconds to say so rather than just not replying?


freespirit11501 53M
1542 posts
1/29/2020 9:06 am

Since you mentioned that it was a FWB/casual partner/lover initiated the meeting in the hotel, I would say absolutely yes. Those titles, implies that there is some relationship or connection with that person. I would not however agree to such a meet if some random woman approached me and offered such a scenario. I need a connection to have good sex. Also, call me old fashioned, but I would never expect my FWB/Lover to pay for the hotel room.

PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!


David69Kincaid 51M
14 posts
1/29/2020 9:12 pm

yes


David69Kincaid 51M
14 posts
1/29/2020 9:13 pm

yes, i would join her


seeusseeu 43M/42F
27 posts
1/31/2020 12:25 am

if the guy didnt showup.... its probably better off for you! clearly there was an issue, and it wasnt on your end


Joshlooking4you 46M

1/31/2020 4:32 am

if I had gotten to the point of planning a meet then my questions would have been satisfied enough so unless something strange or unexpected happened, I wouldn’t.


facefirst1959 64M
58 posts
2/1/2020 2:36 am

Had this happen just the other night . Doesn't happen often but when it does I love it.


jahold 33M

2/1/2020 7:46 am

Would definitely join if she asked. Also, if it is a planned, a man should always keep his word.

If a woman approaches you and offers sex, men should be thrilled by that idea. And if it gets to that point, make the most of it and not simply take it for granted. If they do take it for granted, clearly they have a bit of an ego.


4yourfunbill 57M
21 posts
2/1/2020 2:36 pm

Absolutely I would, it would be so rude not to.


Lookingfornow404 45M
22 posts
2/1/2020 3:28 pm

That needs to be creampied


306krusty 55M  
115 posts
2/1/2020 7:26 pm

definitely. if she wants you to be there than go. never ghost just wrong


rolledHere 37M
109 posts
2/2/2020 1:02 pm

It's like asking if people like free pizza


MWCinMD 57M/55F

2/2/2020 3:46 pm

Of course I would. I would not take such an action for granted. It takes guts for her to do that, and I would do all I could to make her happy that she did it.


Pete240KV 23M

2/3/2020 5:14 pm

Who wouldn't hehehe


rubberduck10 56M

2/4/2020 10:43 am

Absolutely!! IF she's making the effot - then you better believe I will spoil her once I get there! She will be SO GLAD she invited me!


yahkt2011y 59M

2/5/2020 6:17 am

definitely would based on the parameters.


hillbillone 64M
22 posts
2/5/2020 6:43 am

I have never been a total no show on any thing that I have said I would do in my life. That being said, The intake of some substances has made the out come not what was expected. Experience is series of mistakes you learn something from. (*Y*)


Racedrvr77 47M
103 posts
2/5/2020 7:46 pm

Beautiful pic... I haven't had a problem with being a let fown so far


nuotatore69rt 54M

2/7/2020 12:42 pm

1- If your fwb/fb/casual partner/lover/whatever she is called paid for a hotel room would you join her if she asked?
Yes of course I'd renounce only if I was busy with something I really can't reschedule
2- Would you join her if it was planned, or would you flake or ghost?
Of course I'd join her
-Shes paying for the room so you can have sex, and spend the night (if that's in the scope of your partnership).
Staying the night? I'm single not an husband cheating so why not staying?
3- Would you have sex with a woman if she approached you first?
Why shouldn't I? What should be the problem in that? Really don't understand
4- And would you put effort into the sex?
I do sex because I love it, not because I'm bored.


brow6902 59M
99 posts
2/8/2020 10:27 pm

of course!Any woman who goes the extra mile to.initiate or create a sexy environment for us goes straight to the top.of the list. It's an incredibly erotic and sexy thing to do.


justjuice1949 59M
11 posts
2/10/2020 7:31 am

Not only am I showing up... I'm bringing whatever she desires to make this night as memorable for her as it is going to be for me... There's nothing I love better then leaving a woman, girl, slut, ho, whatever, a quivering, sweaty, weak in the knees, cum sprayed, orgasmic, well satisfied, female....


irishmale5150 55M
115 posts
2/10/2020 10:04 am

Nice pics too bad that she is not in New Mexico...


4yourfunbill 57M
21 posts
2/10/2020 1:00 pm

I would never not turn up, the chance to be involved in some sex might be a long time coming again!


SxyLatinJazz_4u 50M
157 posts
2/10/2020 5:10 pm

Aren't you assuming that I haven't had that offer before? Yes. We had fun. I brought the wine and some chocolates to snack on.


ohioguy606 77M  
326 posts
2/12/2020 11:59 am

love your flower..... nice bloom!


NJcock4mouths 36M
12 posts
2/13/2020 8:39 am

I've lived all over and think that would be an opportunity not to miss. And why wouldn't you put your all into it? Where's the fun in that?


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