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New Years Party  

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/53F
103 posts
1/15/2016 8:36 am
New Years Party


Ready for the next chapter in our ongoing story? Too bad because you
are going to get it anyway...lol. This year we decided that we wanted to do
something a little bit different and after the rather successful hotel party we
had in mid-December, we decided to have a New Years Party at the Clarion Inn in Pocatello. This was to be our first significant group event and, needless to
say, we were a bit nervous about it.

So we went through all the necessary things to get the event set up with the
hotel to include renting a meeting room for the party, getting our own bar and
bar staff in the party room, some finger foods for people to munch on, and one
of the members of the group volunteered to DJ the event (thanks, Kent!). Then
we went to TicketLeap to set up the event to begin selling tickets to cover our
costs for the event. It was all going remarkably well. At least so we thought.

A little over a week before the party, I was chatting with one of the ladies in
the group that I have grown quite fond of and count as a good friend and she
mentioned that she would no longer be attending hotel parties because of some things that happened with the hotel party we had in mid-December. I was pretty floored to hear that because she is normally pretty level-headed and pretty easy going, so for her to say that meant that something ruffled her feathers pretty well. I knew I needed to get to the bottom of this and figure out what happened so I could make sure to fix it for the next party right around the
corner. After she laid out her concerns, I decided to consult another female
member of the group who was much more experienced at hosting parties than we were, so I could get her take on what I was told (thanks, V!). Well, it just so
happens that she corroborated most of what I was told and added a few more
things.

We talked things over for a bit and I decided that it was time to come up with
some rules for the conduct of the After Party to address the concerns brought
to my attention (knowing that there was a pretty good chance that if they were
feelings those issue, there were more who didn't say anything). Since we had 2
2-room suites reserved for the After Party, we decided to have one of them as a
social room with only moderate playing and the other room for group play. In
addition, we laid out some ground rules that everyone had to read and sign for
when they checked in. I asked both women to review the rules that I had typed
up to be sure that I had addressed all the concerns and they were both quite
happy with them, so I felt much better and so did Nancy.

We had planned to get to the hotel a bit early so we could check in and then go
soak in the hot tub with some of the other party goers, but we ended up getting to the hotel a little bit later than we wanted to in part because we made a stop at Adam & Eve to get some lube for the After Party because it was
something we noticed we were lacking at the previous hotel party. While we were there we talked to the staff about what it was that we were going to be doing that night and there quite interested in hearing more about it.
During the conversation, they told us that periodically they get people
who come in there and ask about the local swinger scene, but they never knew
what to tell them. So we gave them some of our swinger business cards for them to hand out when that happens again. Maybe we will get some new people from it. On top of that they gave a small swag bag to give away at the party for a door prize which was pretty cool and told us that they would be willing to set up tables at future events to give stuff away and advertise. So it looks like we kind of have a sponsor. Way cool!!

When we finally got to the we found out that there was a little bit of
confusion as to exactly which rooms we were supposed to have reserved for the After Party, but they worked with us to get it all resolved. Then we figured we would go check on the party room and found that it was already set up and looked amazing.

So then it was time to get something to eat before the party, so, as usual, we headed to the restaurant in the hotel, which is actually pretty good, to have dinner with quite a few of the other group members. Then it came time for Nancy to need to leave so she could get ready, but by this time her nerves were really worked up and she was getting pretty frazzled. I hung around for a few minutes to take care of the check and finish a couple conversations. By the time I got to the room to get ready myself and check up on her, she was already in tears and was just about ready to give up because too many things just weren't going well for her. The new corset that she wanted to wear didn't quite fit and didn't have laces that were long enough to fit here, which we were worried about and prepared for by bringing a spare corset for her to wear. However, this corset had some buttons with chains for decorations and one of them came off, so she got out her portable sewing kit to do a little bit of emergency repair to it, but then she realized that she sewed the corset to the bedspread. Add that to the issues she was having with her hair and her makeup, she was a complete mess. So we had to take a time out and get her back on track and calmed down, which is something that I have become quite good at.

Now it was time for the party to begin and for our guests to begin showing up, so I had to leave her to her own devices once she was laced in to her corset and after she composed herself so I could begin to greet our guests. Once people started showing up and got settled, things just kind of happened and the rest of the party went very well. There were no issues at all to deal with and everyone seemed to be having a really good time.

The night continued on and it soon became time for the party to die down and to get ready for the After Party. We got both rooms set up and people set in each of the rooms to be "monitors" to help keep everyone in line. After we got the party wrapped up, everyone who was interested headed over to the Play Rooms. As you might guess, Nancy and I headed over to the naughty Play Room after we made sure the not-so-naughty Play Room was in good shape (thanks again, V!). I won't get into a lot of the details about what happened there, but I will mention a few things worth mentioning here. First of all, one of the single guys in the group, 'F', who is a hoot every time we get together bought some naughty Christmas presents for one of the group ladies that he knows well, 'S'. Those gifts consisted of some nipple clamps connected by a chain and a hollow strap-on. After a little bit of convincing she put it on and went at one of the other group ladies who just happened to have her ass up in the air while she was sucking on some cock. After a few minutes, she stopped and commented on just how much work it is fucking someone! You ladies just don't know..lol!! A short time and a whole bunch of cajoling, Frank decided to put on the strap-on and proceed to have quite a bit of fun with it. It was definitely one of those "you had to be there" moments.

One of the other things worth mentioning is that there was a brand new couple ('J' and 'B') at the party who had never attended a lifestyle event before. We really didn't think we would see them in the naughty room at the After Party, but not only did we see them there, they were the first ones naked and getting down to action. I must say that it was interesting to see some newbies jumping right into the deep and going for it. On top of that, ‘J’ showed some interest in Nancy, which was great, but unfortunately he was not able to maintain an erection because he had been working a lot of hours and was extremely tired. Unfortunately that was just about the only attention that Nancy received the whole night, which once again is something that I just don’t understand at all. I know I am a bit biased towards her, but I really do believe that she is an incredibly sexy woman and she is so much fun to have sex with. Sooner or later, people have to realize that for crying out loud!

Towards the end of the night as things were starting to wind down a bit, the lady friend of ours that had used the strap-on earlier, ‘S’, and I kind of ran into each other and started going at it. However right around that time, Nancy decided to go over to check out what was going on in the other Play Room (the not-so-naughty one) because she was a bit disconcerted over the lack of action coming her way in the naughty Play Room. I honestly thought she would be coming back after going over there, but she didn’t and I began to feel really bad because I was getting some and she wasn’t. So I made sure to save something for her because I knew once we were back in our room after it was all said and done, I would be making damned sure she knew just how much I love her and how much I desire her, no matter what anyone else thinks. That is one thing that is very, very important to us. After we play, we always come back to each other and re-connect with each other. It is something that we learned from a couple who took us under their wings when we were first getting started and it is something that we have tried to pass on to others.

So there you go. We had our first real swingers party and it was a big success overall and we are looking forward to the next one, so keep an eye out on our group for the announcement of the next one.

Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


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