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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/9/2018 12:22 pm

I'll eat a woman of any size... and I don't need any extra sauce or gravy or dip... I'll just eat her raw... As is. I think I'm doing my part to prevent heart desease. ❤️🎅😱😁 ... Yep!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/9/2018 12:33 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for taking me further with this one...

when I say "real" I mean created by God... "real"...

I want everything that comes with "real"... nothing that requires a physician "real"...

personality... great conversation and an "eye" for me get many brownie points...

for more of my specific preference people can go to my profile... it is quite simple... easy going... It doesn't focus on the negatives...

have a great Sunday and enJOY the JOurneY...

hmm...

made me think of this one...

Maroon 5 - "Secret"

Watch the sunrise
Say your goodbyes
Off we go
Some conversation
No contemplation
Hit the road
Car overheats
Jump out of my seat
On the side of the highway, baby
Our road is long
Your hold is strong
Please don't ever let it go, oh no
I know I don't know you
But I want you so bad
Everyone has a secret
Oh, can they keep it?
Oh, no they can't
I'm driving fast now
Don't think I know how to go slow
Oh where you at now?
I feel around
There you are
Cool these engines
Calm these jets
I ask you, how hot can it get?
And as you wipe off beads of sweat
Slowly, you…

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Good luck!!!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
12/9/2018 12:52 pm

I can say I've dated women of all sizes. I like women, even the ones from Victoria Secrets. LOL.

I don't eat many empty carbs, but I do eat a ton of red meat. On my last physical they asked if I was vegan, cause my numbers always look good. I just laugh, and tell them no, just real good genes.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
12/9/2018 12:59 pm

grins, still beating that horse?

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
12/9/2018 1:09 pm

Thank you again for the well thought out and written post. This has barely anything to do with the subject, but it goes along with my goofy side. So please excuse my rambling.

Years ago when I was still married and my son and daughter were still fairly young, 4 and 6 I think, we went shopping for mom, our first time out doing Christmas shopping together for their mother, they had the holiday spirit, but they were still young. We were looking for a certain perfume, of which Victoria's Secret sold at the time. So we go to the local mall and go into Victoria's Secrets. All good so far.

Very young ladies waiting on us, remarking on how cute the kids were and how well behaved, and they helped me find what we were looking for. During checkout the three young ladies started giggling which made me somewhat nervous, it wasn't like I had taken my young kids to shop for sexy lingerie for their mom. But I look around, like a bad parent I had ignored where my kids were and my son and daughter had gotten into a display of thong underwear with hanging fabric balls on them, and my daughter had actually put one on over her clothes and my son was playing badminton with ones still on the rack. Well I was torn between mortification and laughter. Thankfully the young ladies at the store were extremely nice and helpful, they were laughing harder than I was. It all worked out.


Luc55534676 24M

12/9/2018 1:11 pm

nice


scott6250 61M

12/9/2018 1:14 pm

I've been married to two women that were skinny and 2 that were medium to heavy in size. I enjoyed them all equally. Great post.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
12/9/2018 2:05 pm

I see it as jealousy pure and simple .Many women who are larger do not want to see that they have bad habits that lead to physical changes and make them larger and unfortunately unhealthy .I ma a nutritional healing specialist .The subcutaneous fat is such a minor concern .It is the unhealthy mutated fats around your organs , in your organs , in your brain cells membranes and in your glands that count most !!! YOu will become chronically unhealthy , ill, debilitated if you carry too much abnormal weight ,mostly bad , artificially created lipids . Some may find the shape to be sexy , but being unhealthy , rone to depression , diabetes, mood disorders, anger, sleep issues digestive damage , kidney stones, gall bladder failure ,cancer , mental decline , leukemia, crohns disease, psoriasis, alopecia, loss of sex drive, lupus, and others is in no way sexy or desireable .America needs to wake up , stop being twisted by feelings and self delusion and face real issues with maturity , self discipline , knowlege , and rational thought , Good health , mental balance , enjoyable sexuality and contentedness to all . Value your body as it is a temple ,not a dumpster .


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/9/2018 3:00 pm

We are REAL WOMEN no matter what SIZE we are!!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


luvgluv19 75M

12/9/2018 3:13 pm

The signature pelvic tongue speaks the truth again


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
12/9/2018 4:12 pm

Joy, you already know, from our interactions back and forth over the years, that I am NEVER shy about expressing my opinion. You also know that, during all our interactions, we have agreed, far more than we disagree. But, I feel compelled to express my thoughts on 1 particular subject you have raised here.

Are YOU diabetic? Do you have a medical degree? Are you a dietician?

I understand and appreciate that, due to family history, you have become very knowledgeable about what is and is considered part of a heart-healthy diet. There are many things that would cause problems, if consumed in excess, or as a regular part of that diet. However, occasionally - in moderation and in limited quantities - they can be consumed without the guilt that they are "forbidden".

As a long time diabetic, who also is at risk for heart disease and stroke, I CAN eat white bread, and red meats, but I must balance them out. within my diet, so that I am getting the proper amount of balanced food groups, calories, fats, carbohydrates, fibre etc. And, NEWSFLASH, I can also have sugar, as long as it is limited and in small enough quantities as to not throw my blood sugars out of whack.

Calling any "curvy girl" who is larger than a size 16 as having a "meat and potatos body" is not only an insult to larger women everywhere - but an insult to Meat and Potatoes.

Especially considering that 68% of North American women wear a Size 14 or larger. (We won't even go into the current obesity epidemic, OK?) You can be a size 2, or 4, or 16, or 20 and still NOT be overweight or obese.

Thanks for providing an opportunity for discussion. I appreciate it.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


ltrlover1 66M

12/9/2018 4:27 pm

perfectly sized and 100% women, you look luscious

baffled


Story435 76M
3791 posts
12/9/2018 5:11 pm

Hello beautiful !
I would have to say your a real woman for sure Joy. And one with a beautiful body too!
I think some larger women think everyone should look like them. But that's not the case at all we all come in different sizes. Some of us like you watch what we eat sometimes not because we want to but it is the best for you health wise. I am 6ft and 179lbs and I do because I want to!
Butch


tinroofrusted59 64M

12/9/2018 5:31 pm

Very good post Joy. I concur wholeheartedly. Who gets decide what a real woman or a real man is? We all come in all shapes and sizes.......but I might say there are differences in real women or real men, more so in character than in appearance. Great blog!


CNYMale4Fun 63M

12/9/2018 6:35 pm

You are REAL Sexy!!!


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
12/9/2018 10:41 pm

I think the term "real" is being bandied about erroneously. Obviously the Victoria's Secrets models are real and alive as are women who are size 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 etc. Some folks have touched upon the idea of averages and normal weights and sizes. Perhaps that is where the discussion lies and not the term "real." The average woman is curvy or larger than a size 6 and Victoria's Secrets models are way below average in this regard. Some men prefer women who weigh less and others who weigh more. I think you have said in the past that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Or to each his own. I myself am in a category that I do not like. I have had all kinds of body image issues over the years with eating disorders in college. I am never going to be a size 2 or 4 or even 6. To tell you the truth, reading this post of yours makes me want to hate myself. If that is your objective, you have succeeded. I guess I will just forget about finding a partner and be a celibate hermit for the rest of my life. Just kidding. I am sure there is some guy out there who will be able to see my worth beyond my looks. Hope springs eternal.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


Dtts43rt35 65M
15090 posts
12/10/2018 2:52 pm

Great post good writing and your pictures are beautiful!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
12/11/2018 10:57 pm

Arrrrgh! As far as I know, aren't all women of all sizes real? I'm only 5' 7", and sometimes wear a size extra small dress shirt. Often times a size small is too large, and the sleeves are way too long. I don't fall into the Armani male model category, but I am every bit a REAL man... same goes for any man or woman of any height or weight.

Thoughts from the Garden...


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
12/16/2018 7:57 pm

The term "REAL' is being used wrongly by most it seems. The term "REALISTIC" would be more accurate, since a majority of women in North America (which is the target of Vicky's Secret) are NOT what you see on the runway, nor do the stores or the website even offer such fashions that fit the reality of women's sizes in their overall audience.
As someone who has primarily dated larger women all my life, I have heard EVERYONE of them lament the lack of thier sizes in those stores, AND how they are treated by the sales staff if they venture into thse stores too. I have seen that treatment firsthand, why no one has sued VS for the behavior of their staff is beyind me. And in response to that lack, a friend of mine in STL strted his own lingerie clothing line, using similar designs to VS, with sizes starting at 10 and going up to 28. The regional VS office filed a cease & desist order on him, and put him out of business with their legal efforts, never proving anything against him other than they had more money than he had to fight with. Larger women deserve the same erotic fashions that the slimmer women have access to, and dont say shop Fredricks, cuz their stuff isnt as good as the wrappers it comes in !
I say, LINGERIE EQUALITY is way over due! And just maybe it would help those women who are body shamed into yoyo dieting and mental illness such as bullimeia & anore ity!


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