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benard69 66M/66F  

1/24/2019 2:57 pm

You had us at Aliens...


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
1/24/2019 3:10 pm

I like your graphic. That's interesting stuff to talk about.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
1/24/2019 3:13 pm

Sex and intellect should never be used in the same sentence. When sex is mentioned, intellect ceases to exist.
Your answer was priceless!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/24/2019 3:23 pm

omg my friend I am so sorry that happened to you..but the reply you made to him was priceless and I loved it good for you. I have to say it made me giggle out loud. I don't know what the hell some men are thinking I mean seriously. It's like do any of them know how to have an intelligent or fun conversation..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/24/2019 3:27 pm

I swear men are really really dumb!!! I have one who says things like " can I ask you a Question and you wont get mad at me?" My stock answer is You just pissed me off- right then!
Your answer to "that guy" was priceless- you need to copyright it and make a Fun Sign out of it

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traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
1/24/2019 3:37 pm

I love your answer!!

I swear men have no idea how to flirt anymore. I'm so sick of the Hey! Nice tits used as an opener.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
1/24/2019 3:43 pm

SMH

sooooo...... seen any aliens with big boobs

LOL

I apologize on behalf of MEN


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/24/2019 3:50 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Sex and intellect should never be used in the same sentence. When sex is mentioned, intellect ceases to exist.
    Your answer was priceless!
Sex and intellect should never be used in the same sentence.

Uhmmm . . . you just used sex and intellect same sentence . . . twice.

To Wonder . . . I've found conversations, intelligent or not so, can lead to other interesting discussions and or places. Wanna talk about it?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
1/24/2019 3:50 pm

So I assume with the" all men comment" that each Woman on here who has said that have met ever Man in the World to know they are dumb and lack the intellect to produce an continue a Proper conversation. A bit of Box putting in I would say!

Oh and News Flash. Allot of Women can't do it (hold a intelligent/half decent) conversation either!


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
1/24/2019 4:03 pm

half of all humans are in the bottom half . just avoid those people . simple minds talk about people , averge minds talk about events , brilliant minds talk about ideas, solutions,and possibilitries . pick whom you talk to carefully and it gets easier .


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
1/24/2019 4:04 pm

half of all humans are in the bottom half . just avoid those people . simple minds talk about people , average minds talk about events , brilliant minds talk about ideas, solutions,and possibilitries . pick whom you talk to carefully and it gets easier .


HedonicHeathen 56M
198 posts
1/24/2019 4:26 pm

All these things you say you wanna chat about ... they are all the contents of every post I make on the blogs of others and in the advice section... if you want to chat about any of those things ... hit me up ... often on later in evening or night. I'm no longer gold, so I can't even see your profile ... or friend you to know when you are on.


HedonicHeathen 56M
198 posts
1/24/2019 4:37 pm

    Quoting clittywhisperer1:
    half of all humans are in the bottom half . just avoid those people . simple minds talk about people , average minds talk about events , brilliant minds talk about ideas, solutions,and possibilitries . pick whom you talk to carefully and it gets easier .
I do believe you are paraphrasing Eleanor Roosevelt with the three levels of interesting there. What is left unsaid; however, says all ... the path beyond simple is either complicated or chaotic ... and to finally reach a view that is complex or compounded .. but in order for something to be thusly manifold it generally is accepted that a simple surface is required, which means speaking, conversing, and writing about simple things with only breadcrumb trails that leas to chaos and doubt. As Dylan sang back in the 70s ... "you can have the truth but you got to choose it, it might cost you all you love and you can't get it for money ... you find out when you reach the top you are on the bottom."

So um yeah top/bottom ... high school wrestling ... D/s::S/d ... generations after the next eminence fronting how age is supposed to outwit the energy of youth ... that with age comes wisdom and understanding ... that this is knowledge. ptah I say ...but to each his or her own.

So to the OP ... the owner of this blog ... we of the same age ... hey yous ...any chat of depth that does something other than 'what does they mean" then turning what into why. You can find me ... where I stand.

Nice tits btw ... in the end what defines the mirror is all about framing.


IVFalternative 52M
630 posts
1/24/2019 5:43 pm

    Quoting ItsThtPervertGuy:
    So I assume with the" all men comment" that each Woman on here who has said that have met ever Man in the World to know they are dumb and lack the intellect to produce an continue a Proper conversation. A bit of Box putting in I would say!

    Oh and News Flash. Allot of Women can't do it (hold a intelligent/half decent) conversation either!
People use generalizations. Get over it.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/24/2019 6:42 pm

Did You Really Just Say That?..... There are places , you can be legitimately shocked regarding what another may say to you, ......but this site , is not one of those places.

Talking with an acquaintance today that reached out to me. .... Okay, so he has had
conversations with you before. Obviously , in his shy "Acquaintance" way he wanted the conversation to get a little more personal. If you can't do that, why do you have him as an "Acquaintance"?

Then asked if he could ask me a serious question. .... Men don't need to ask if they can ask a woman a question.... much better to just guide her to that topic. Or better, make the woman talk about her size , on her own.

“Do you still have big boobs?”.... For ADULT [x-rated] Friendfinder.... this is a casual question. For eharmony? No.... that's when you can be upset and get all 'wtf' bewildered.

..to which I reply, “no, they fell off.” .. Good funny response. And to that, he said?

From there my interest in the conversation faded quick...... Why? You can alter the conversation. If you want to talk about UFO's, and not unidentified boobies.... go ahead and mention a topic of conversation you want to be a part of.

This is why I don’t chat...... Oh come on... this is a sex site... you're showing some boobabe bait, and the guy wanting to chat is probably holding his penis....some days talking about sex stuff is a whole lot better than talking about death , atoms and ufo's. ......in fact, "Most days".

No one wants a legitimate convo. .... No... No straight healthy male thinks to sign up on a sex/swinger site to find a serious conversation with a woman. When men want serious conversations, they'll get in trouble with their women, or go out and talk with his pals.

You're here , there's no mystery here... you know the game....Play the game. ..... Tease each other some... and see if that moves over into something less sexual. .....But completely reasonable, on here, to talk about your boobs or whatever.

Sure, I can throw in flirtation, an innuendo for fun, but not going to have a convo about my tits! ... Why? You're using your tits as click bait. Only natural some will ask you about them.

Is there something wrong with me? ..... Well either you're clueless about this site, or you're tired and not in the mood.

just not into superficial bs chats. ..... Really? And you freely joined this kind of site? Look , if you want serious , non-superficial conversations , there are all kinds of sites for that. This is not one of them. At least the private conversations, on here, will not typically begin that way.

When you contact a man, on here, you can guide the conversation to something serious.... maybe he won't logoff.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/24/2019 7:18 pm

Oh .. and "Small talk" is one way of how people begin talking, with each other, when they don't know each other.

"Commonalities" is another way..... in this case , your acquaintance pal was using the sex part of this site as the common stage to begin.

For instance... a girl and guy , total stranges to each other, randomly find each other in a skateboard store....they'll start talking about skateboarding , eventually ,if all goes well, he'll get around to mentioning something about her body.

But on here, the "Store" is sex-stuff. [You are both in]. Maybe he'll get around to mentioning string theory and galaxies. after mentioning the obvious sex stuff.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/24/2019 8:54 pm

... "no one..." - ? Some people do.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/24/2019 11:56 pm

I meant... that 'some' ... was a good thing... It gives one some hope... Right ?
I should have followed up, with a smiley face.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
1/25/2019 5:17 am

“Do you still have big boobs?”

"Do you still open your mouth without thinking first?"

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
1/25/2019 7:09 pm

Congratulations; glad you could come back with a comment to address his mindset, or lack of.. It is hard to manage a meaning conversation on these sites, the lack of patience is very prevalent. It is hard to understand what is needed to carry on these types of chats , as the needed information information is not on a lot of profiles.. I read a lot of them and they vary from one end of the spectrum to the opposite.. … Thanks for posting on the subject,

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
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moorheadfun53 53M

1/29/2019 4:06 pm

very true


mandingo72758 46M
83 posts
1/30/2019 5:16 pm

Hey everyone


PyschoLoco 60M
1550 posts
2/1/2019 9:29 am

For me the convo and interaction are part of the foreplay, more than kissing in my case. Feels like to me that talk and intellect are way less popular now than 5 or 10 years ago. But I keep trying cos it's what I like

Standards are people too.....kinda


rodnagi 35M
10 posts
2/6/2019 9:07 pm

You should love >> https://is.gd/JpWCDneoesendeoesend


readyforgoodnite 57M/57F

2/7/2019 12:11 am

wow is that all it takes? you decide if you want to be offended you choose it wow if that is all it takes then yay


jungleguy2014 51M
3 posts
2/14/2019 11:09 am

Don't give up - some of us guys still like to have good conversations, but I will agree its a bit of a lost art.


onscurious 39M
29 posts
2/15/2019 12:56 am

Sounded like something that had a follow up question of some type. Or was fishing for some kind of sexy answer........ I think breast sizes do change though, testicles too have a slight variance in size throughout a mans life.


scottj55555 55M
1987 posts
2/21/2019 9:06 am

Wow, great approach. Not even a "Are you still as gorgeous as the last time I saw you?"
Love the reply though, hilarious.


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
3/27/2020 11:20 pm

Its been over a year since I made a post to this blog but I have to reply to someone who replied to what I said. Member BiggLala she says of me (You know, I have to give it to you...you tried to make an intelligent comment but failed with your grammatical and spelling errors. Therefore you lost all credibility. I would point out your multiple errors, but there's just too many.)

Yes there was some spelling error's ( three or less! You talk like there were many with your multiple) only because I was a bit ticked off by the post and rushed to reply. But its easy to pick out the small things isn't it. The sign of a true petty person. One of them anyway! You know I have seen you post replies in various blogs and News Flash. You are NOT the sharpest knife in the drawer at ALL! You come off like you are so wise and intelligent and you may be somewhat smart but more stuck up and full of herself is more like it. You should come off that high horse then take that stick out your ass ,then get REAL and maybe you can be more credible!


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