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Do women like mmf or ffm the best?
Posted:Mar 19, 2012 10:01 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2017 9:55 am
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I think after any long term relationship, it is only natural to get bored with sleeping with the same person the whole time, so, eventually, a long term goal for somebody and their girlfriend is to invite another (trusted) couple into our bedroom, thus enjoying either mmf, ffm, or mfmf.

Some surprised me by saying her favorite would be mmf, when in fact, that ought not be too surprising, because maybe she doesn't like going down on women that much, wheras although mmf might be my favorite to watch, I had to then admit ffm might be best for me, simply because I could probably function better in it. The sight of a new woman naked might get me instantly hard like i used to get with her.... Amazing the things people can do if they but share.

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The Women Men Adore
Posted:Feb 18, 2012 11:51 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2012 6:02 pm
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How to be His Dream Girl?

A dream girl is the kind of woman men adore. She inspires a man to want to be with her, spend time with her, respect her, possibly take her to forever. She does this with a feminine grace that is hard for a man to resist. She is fun, playful, has boundaries and does not badger or nag to get what she needs out of a relationship. She knows her value and therefore, the men act accordingly. How do you become this kind of woman? What is it that men really want from women and what is it about one woman that has him pining away while he hardly notices other women? What makes one a woman men adore and never want to leave? What makes you his dream girl?

What Makes a Man Fall In Love?

A man doesn't fall in love with the woman he can live with. A man falls in love with the woman he can't live with out.

If you think it's the things you do that he can't live without, you might want to reconsider. Being good to a man simply isn't the key ingredient. So many women make their mistake here. They give and give hoping it will endear them to the man. They bend over backwards pleasing him. This isn't what makes a man fall in love. This is what makes you a doormat. A woman willing to sacrifice of herself to please another just isn't attractive, she is convenient at the most.

It's the woman that challenges him that men fall in love with. It's the woman who stands up for herself with feminine grace and feminine elegance that wins his heart. The woman that will show him with ease that she will not be a doormat. Men like to make women happy. It makes them feel good and makes them feel valued. Men fall in love with how you make them feel. If they can make you happy, they feel good. Think Tarzan running through the jungle pounding his chest and you get my drift.

It's not the things you do that make a man fall in love with you. It's the way you acknowledge, appreciate and accept the things he does that makes him fall in love with you.

What Makes A Man Want to Marry a Woman?

Are you the perfect girlfriend. Do you do everything in your power to please him and gain his affection? You want to make his life easy because you love him. You may cook for him, clean, and do everything you can to please him and make him happy. Did it occur to you that this is why you don't have the ring yet. He has it all already and he knows you aren't going anywhere. Why should he marry you? What will inspire him to commit and propose to you? Will he ever marry you?

Imagine a world where the roles were reversed. Men cook for the women, do your laundry, pick up after you, and dote on you. On top of this he can't wait to get married. He owns a hope chest filled with household items and silk bow ties for his groomsmen to wear at his wedding. He greets you at the door in silk boxers and boots ready to do a pole dance for you. He looks at and remarks about every baby he see. Then he adds a few ultimatums. Where is my ring? Why can't we get married? Chances are good you would think this guy was off his rocker and you would tie up you running shoes and sprint.

Funny thing is, a lot of women use this approach to catch a husband. They are the nice girl that puts everyone else's needs before her own. She would put her man's need before her own any day because she loves him so much. It's the woman who loves herself first that men adore. They respect a woman who will not compromise her own values and life for that of a man. A man's respect is the glue that holds it together. Earn his respect and you will win his heart. It's the key to whether he will ever marry you.

The women men marry are usually the ones that don't work overtime to catch a husband. They are strong, spirited women who stand up for themselves. She won't compromise herself. This makes a man classify her as a woman with a mind of her own that he can't walk all over like linoleum. This is the woman that a man will marry.

Signs a Man Is In Love

t's Monday night, or Sunday Afternoon. He chooses watching the lifetime channel with you over football or racing. If he does this, the man is in love.

He appears happy. His friends and family even notice and remark on how alive he seems. Something is going on here, this new attitude is a sign a man is in love.

He lets you keep feminine stuff at his house. He jokes about it, which means he is actually proud of it. Yep, he is smitten.

He starts taking better care of himself. Physically and financially. He may start thinking long term and become more responsible.

He goes out of his way for you. He will fly to see you. He will get up and go get you a doughnut in the middle of the night.

He does something out of character. Maybe he goes with her and gets a facial. Maybe he goes shopping and is patient about it. Doing things out of character to make her happy is a sure sign a man is in love.

You won't have to ask how he feels because you just know it in your gut.

These are all signs a man is in love or a man is falling in love.
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What Women Love & Hate About Anal
Posted:Jan 30, 2012 9:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 10:42 pm
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Anal sex isn’t just for the sexually daring anymore. It’s becoming more and more common in bedrooms around the world, but don’t let that fool you. Backdoor play is a different beast altogether. If you're trying to convince your girlfriend to have anal sex -- and yes, we're going out on a limb here and assuming it's your idea -- there are a few key pieces of advice you need to hear.

First off, she will either love it or hate it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, resulting in one of two feelings: pain or pleasure. And if it was pain, it’s likely she’s going to be hesitant about trying it again. You’ll have to be extra prepared if you’re going at it for a second time, hoping for more pleasurable results for her.

But if she's open to it, with a little practice and a lot of patience, you’ll be able to enjoy a satisfying anal-sex life. Use a variety of different positions to make it more fun and comfortable for both of you. Once you know what women love and hate about anal sex, you are ready to rock her world.

THE PROS

It can feel good

Women enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. It's a totally different sensation than regular sex. It's not her vagina, yet it's inside her. In other words, it’s a completely alien feeling that she isn’t used to, which makes it intriguing. Meanwhile, the rectum will just suck up your penis like a vacuum. Play with her clitoris too and you’ll really send her into the stratosphere. In fact, it’s even possible for women to have orgasms from anal sex.

Because anal sex is naughty

Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a “naughty girl.” There’s a reason people love school girl uniforms and handcuffs: It’s forbidden and, therefore, all the more delicious and tempting. Anal sex is something you can do in secret and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your girl -- which is part of the fun. Plus, there’s the bonding experience of doing something together for the first time, even if it’s just a first for one of you.

THE CONS

It’s painful

Anal sex can hurt like a mofo. The rectum is not built to have things go in; only out. The vagina stretches to let in a penis and give birth, but a rectum does not. Thus you can cause searing pain if you don't prepare her properly. That means a) asking her first (duh) b) using lube and c) going very slowly and not pounding into her like a jackrabbit.

It's a mess

Women put so much emphasis on making themselves look pretty and sweet-smelling for their men, so the merest glimmer of a possibility that you might see her explode all over herself is obviously devastating to her. No longer will you see her as a beautiful, desirable woman; you'll forever be picturing her covered in feces. It's not exactly the look she's going for.

For this reason she might decide to avoid anal sex altogether. But if she takes an anal douche ahead of time (or even just a thorough wash-up in the shower) and makes sure her bowels have been emptied an hour before, she’s almost certain to avoid any messy accidents.
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Will you marry her?
Posted:Dec 11, 2011 6:27 am
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2012 11:51 pm
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My good buddy ask me for advise if he shall or shall not marry this girl that he known her for 1year. I think my buddy is serious with her. However, there is something about his girlfriend which my buddy pop out a question to share about each other history to be honest and if they can accept each other.

Just some background of my friend:
- Well educated, Handsome, Rich, Hold a certain status, With excellent career and an A+ cool guy shall not be a problem to get gals he want. Shall be consider Gals will go after him those calibre. The most eligible bachelor.

During the Conversation with his Girlfriend, she is very honest to share that she had her first sex when she is 15, and had numerous sex partner in the past. About Twenty Over Sex partners, Got herself pregnant before and done her abortion. At one point, she is very poor and become a and entertained 5 session of services. She is suffering with continuous depression. That is her background. She love my buddy a lot and afraid to lose him.

My buddy can understand that she is very naive in some point even although she is in her later twelves and coming to thirty soon. She don't think well or plan for anything. Always lose her stuffs and not sure where she place it. Cant find any good friend for advise and be online to kill her bore and finding friend in the past. However, there is lot of horny men out there to con her and make use of her which my buddy don't think she realized that. That is what my buddy think and he never blame her for anything. However, he felt that she really need someone who is strong and capable to protect and take care of her. Cause she is so weak and cannot effort someone to hurt her and make use of her.

He is prepared to guide her and share with her in life. How to make good judgement and decision and grow her up and be independent. My buddy is willingly to walk with her until he die.

However, my buddy not sure shall or shall not marry her because of her pasts. Cause he is worried about his reputation. He is worried one day, someone will show up and told him that he had paid to fuck his wife before. That will really be a shame for him.

I really dun have a answer for him and how to tell him.

Please share with me your views and i will tell him

Thank you

Yen
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What makes men go gaga for certain women?
Posted:Nov 21, 2011 7:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2011 5:40 am
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What makes men go gaga for certain women? What is it about some chicks that make us spontaneously lose our cool?

We are normally strong-headed, straightforward creatures. But when it comes to women, we can become confused and easily disoriented. Think of all those male cartoon characters you've seen whose eyes bug out of their heads and tongues loll out to the ground when a sexy girl walks by. That's not all that far from the reality.

There are certain things about certain women that will prove to be such a turn-on that they instantly throw any guy off. As much as we do appreciate these moments, it's a good thing to be aware of such weapons, so you can have a shot at mustering some degree of coherence when you encounter them.

Here are 10 things about women that will instantly turn on just about any man.

Number 10
She has an accent
There's nothing like the sound of an exotic accent to get a guy's engines revving. Whether she's British, French, Irish, Italian, or from anywhere else, it's a sure bet that a man will be taken in by that foreign lilt or intonation. Accents are especially exciting when the woman throws in some words from her native language. What could be sexier than trying to guess what exactly she said she wanted you to do to her?

Number 9
She admits to loving sex
Many men lament the fact that their lady doesn't want or get off on sex as much as he does. So when a woman tells a dude that she loves sex, it's a huge turn-on. When a man knows that any time he feels like gettin' it on, his woman will be more than willing and able, well, it may be time to refurnish the bedroom, because you're going to be spending a whole bunch of time in there.

Number 8
She drives a motorcycle
Think about how cool and confident you feel when you hit the road on your chopper. Now, imagine how a woman feels riding one of those bad boys. Next, think about how she looks when she feels that way. Getting the picture? It's just sexy to see a chick on a bike -- particularly when she's clad in form-fitting leather chaps. Female bikers give off a carefree vibe, as well as the sense of mystery that comes with face-masking helmets. There's a reason why all bike manufacturers like to market their merchandise alongside scantily-clad models -- because it never fails to make men look.

Number 7
She has a sexy voice
Men love to hear the tones of a woman's sexy voice. Whether it's husky or has that soft, caressing touch, a woman's voice can send shivers down a man's spine via his auditory system. Think of the Marilyn Monroe's famous "Happy Birthday" song or Liv Tyler's otherworldly tone in the Lord Of The Rings trilogy. If a woman's inflections sound like that, a man will fall for her from the ears on down.

Number 6
She has nice breasts
Men love breasts. This is a cold, hard fact. Just look at the astounding number of similes we've invented to describe them: knockers, rack, melons, headlights, and assets, to name but a few. Without getting into the psychology underlying this common obsession, it's sufficient to say that a woman with a great bust line is always attractive to a man. It's probably a good thing the female gender was the one to get the breasts. Had it turned out otherwise, we'd get nothing done -- we'd be home all day fondling them.

Number 5
She has a great ass
Okay, men also love asses. A shapely butt on a woman is a sure-fire turn-on to any guy. The way it moves when she walks -- that slight jiggle of the hips and sway of the cheeks -- is pretty much a mating signal. After all, there's a reason they call it a "booty call." Men are easily hypnotized by a fine female gluteus maximus , and will pretty much drop everything (literally and figuratively) to get a closer look.

Number 4
She looks like a porn star
Yes, men are easily smitten by a babe who looks like she came straight off the box cover of an adult video. Here, once again, it's all in the visuals. Whether it's the way she unabashedly embraces her sexuality or the "come hither" look on her face, the girl who looks and acts wanton will always have a horde of men buzzing around her. Want proof? Count the number of strip clubs in your town.

Number 3
She has full lips
Men like to kiss women. And men really like to kiss women with great lips. A full, sensuous mouth has always been a giant turn-on. The sight of a woman with beautiful, lush lips makes men think of how said lips would feel as they kissed the many different body parts he has to offer. Just think of Angelina Jolie's perfect lips. What man wouldn't want to get a taste of those?

Number 2
She talks dirty
It's the lucky man who gets the girl who loves to talk dirty. As men are often the sexual initiators in bed, a woman who talks dirty is a prized catch. Guys love to hear a babe talk about the things she wants to do and have done to her. This is especially valued when he's on the road on business. A guy's hotel room seems a lot less lonely when he can get some rocking-good phone-sex from his lady back home.

Number 1
You catch a peek of her undies
Sometimes, it's all about the tantalizing prospect of what a girl has underneath her clothes. In fact, many men often prefer the sight of a skimpy outfit that's slightly revealing to actually seeing the naked female body. For women this is hard to believe, but true nonetheless.

So when a man gets a glimpse of a thong gently peeking above a beltline or the shadow of a lacy bra through a shirt, all he can do is dazedly wonder what else is under there. Quite often, the rest of his day is shot because those images will have been burned into his brain, keeping him aroused until he can get home and do something about it. Happy daze indeed.
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The Metrosexual Male
Posted:Oct 27, 2011 8:01 am
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2011 8:15 am
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The Metrosexual male...all about him and what it means to be him. The term Metrosexual has a lot of stigma attached to it, but most of it is completely un-true and down right ignorant.

Not only do you have a right to look and feel good, but you should! Looking good, having style, a nice haircut, and sexy cologne has nothing to do with your sexuality...if fact it has more to do with the kind of guy you are.

What kind of guy are you? Are you a self loathing pig? Do you sit around and do nothing with yourself all day and wonder why women are not attracted to you? Do you make excuses for everything and take no responsibility for yourself?

OR... do you exercise..even a few times a week, do you watch what you eat....do you take note of the details of your body? Do you notice that the bathroom does not magically clean itself? Do you attempt to organize your room? ALL OF THIS reflects in how you look, smell, walk, talk and eat!

Metro-sexual men LOOK GOOD! But it does not stop there, you have to maintain your cleanliness in areas other than just your cloths. If you wear a pair of Guess Jeans, a nice styled Affliction shirt and a nice pair of squared toed boots...great! But, are you just wearing the "I look good and care about myself Uniform"? Or do you actually live that way. WOMEN will be able to tell...and usually very quickly.

So, lets start in the bathroom. You take your cloths off and your standing at the bathroom sink with the mirror in front of you. What do you see? Look at yourself and exam your face to start. Don't just look at yourself in terms of recognizing yourself... look at the details of your face. Do you have black heads or white heads? Are your pores big? Do you get razor burn when you shave? Is your skin oily or dry? Are their lines or wrinkles anywhere?

Look at your eyebrows. Is there one big eyebrow or are there two like there should be? (Remember, do not pluck your eye brows... only remove the hair that is between the eyebrows, above the nose...plucking your eyebrows is totally gay and very unattractive...unless of course your gay, which then it is all good). Women do not like plucked eye brows, but they do like stray hairs in the middle to be cleaned up.

If you have white or black heads, buy a face wash that will remove them. Typically a facial scrub acts as an exfoliate. Exfoliates open your pores and remove all the dead skin and black heads.

You can also squeeze them out yourself by getting a mirror that enlarges your reflection so you can see the pores more deeply...they are very cheap. Once you clean the pores, use a good face wash that is also a moisturizer. This is very important!!! Your skin, especially your face, must be moisturized.... it will make sure you age slowly and give you a nice healthy look.

If your pores are big, you can buy a facial wash that minimizes the pore size. This is good! No one wants to see huge hole's all over your face.

If you get razor burn when you shave, buy 10 packs of disposable razors and get shaving cream for sensitive skin. The disposable razors will help reduce irritation because each time you shave, you are using a brand new razor. There are aftershave lotions that will reduce the redness from the aftershave burn as well.

If your skin is oily, buy a face wash that is for oily skin. There are a ton of them that will help moderate oil on your face while still moisturizing you. There are also blotting papers you can use throughout the day to remove oil from your face. If you have very oily skin and acne, you may want to see a doctor to get some antibiotics to clear you up.. If the acne is severe, dont worry!...there is accutane which works every time...especially for cystic acne.

If you have lines or wrinkles around the eyes, get an anti wrinkle eye cream and a face cream for wrinkles. Even if you do not have wrinkles on the face now, start using something NOW before you do get them. Moisturizing is key. When the skin is dry, and you smile or frown, the expression lines start to stay because there is no elasticity in your skin so it can't bounce back.

Now lets talk about your mouth. You have to brush your teeth every day! I know that seems obvious, but a lot of guys think they are fine or are running late and they just leave for work. This is completely disgusting and even though you don't think so... everyone notices!!

Brush your teeth all over for at least 2 minutes. Make sure your toothpaste has Triclosan in it. This will keep bacteria and infections in and around your teeth away. It will also reduce your gums from bleeding. I recommend Colgate with whitening. It has all the ingredients you need plus whitening. Brush at the minimum when you wake up and before you go to bed. Get a teeth whitening kit. Women do NOT like to see yellow or brown teeth. Would you want to kiss a girls mouth with dirty brown and yellow teeth? NO. You should floss after eating as well...food stuck in between your teeth will cause bacteria and start to smell. No one wants to kiss booty breath. ALWAYS keep a pack of strong peppermint gum or Altoids on you.

The hair. Make sure you get a modern hair cut. Keep up on styles by observing guys in public, but especially on TV...not that you care what guys on TV look like, but SHE DOES. You can choose so many different styles AND colors... yes I know that scares some of you but trust me, some of you will look a 1000 times better with a lighter or darker hair color to go with your new white teeth and cleaned up, moisturized face.

If you are unsure what to get, go to a salon like Aveda, or google salons in your area...do not visit a "barber". That is just a butcher shop for regular, BORING, un-attractive, simple guys that do not care about themselves or how others view them...especially women. Tell the stylist you would like something new and modern...with some texture...kind of messy but still stylish with the right product. They will know exactly what to do.

SWEET. So by now you should have a hot hair style, clean, clear, tight skin, two eyebrows, white teeth and some nice, styled cloths.

Underneath all that.Now we get dirty and a little explicit.

Pubic hair! Yikes! LOL. OK, first things first. You can shave it all or just trim it up...but you can't do nothing! I know you may think different but women and men both are pretty grossed out when you go down to give a little lovin and you have to stop a bunch of times because pubic hairs are in your mouth or in your teeth...AND, when your down there, no one wants to smell anything except maybe the body wash you just used to scrub your ass crack, taint and under your sack. PERIOD. Un-managed pubic hair and foul, sour smell coming frumunda is completely out of control and I would stop right there and call someone else to get freaky with.

Guys you have to use a hand mirror.... put it on the floor and squat down over it so you can see what you look like from your balls, and your taint to the inside of your ass cheeks. This is very important...it is what she will see! If you are very hair, you need to trim. Get a beard trimmer for 15$ at Wal-Mart. They usually come with attachments. Put a number 4 on it and go to town. Put a number 2 on it and do the area below your stomach. Trim down the hair on your balls and around your dick and then use a razor and shave your balls. This will not only look good, but it makes it a lot nicer for the person going down on you.

If your hair all over your body, use the number 4 or 6 and go to town. Women do like like hair...but only some of it. No one wants to have sex with a gorilla!

When you shower...lift a leg and make sure your cloth, hand or loofah are very lathered and wash your entire crotch area, including under the balls, the taint area and your ass crack. This is not the time or place to cut time!!! You have to go over it a few times, use your bare hand and feel the sides of your ass crack, make sure it is completely clean, really rub the taint area and under your ball sack and the sides as well. I know this seems obvious but guys quickly do a run over or assume the running water along with the soap from washing their hair is good enough since it passed over the area on the way down. NOT good enough guys... you have to get in there.

Hands and Toe Nails.

This one isn't too complicated. Just trim your hands and toe nails. But look...don't do it in her bathroom, or if in yours, do it over the toilet so the nails fall off in to the toilet so you can just flush it after. Pick up the left over ones and make sure you flush them too. Don't clip your nails on the couch or in your recliner... don't leave your nail trimmings on the coffee table...DON'T leave ANYTHING that she will have to clean up. Trust me...all the things she has to do around the house is filed away in her brain and she will use it against you at times of war...they are VERY good at this...YOU must NOT supply the ammo.

Women typically go and their nails done, and/or get pedicures. I know this is free time for you since she is gone, but go with her once in a while. BE A MAN, not a pussy. It takes a MAN to sit in a chair with her, regardless of what anyone thinks and get a pedicure with her. Listen guys... NO ONE CARES...trust me. Women think it is so sweet and wish their man would go with them too...this makes you look VERY good And seriously... pedicures and manicures are amazing. You get an awesome massage on your feet, calves and forearms and you get a glimpse of what women go through to look good. Hey, you love the way the nails feel on your back right? She works hard to keep herself up...even if you don't have too, she does and you know you like it... all women want is for you to NOTICE it and appreciate all the hard work they go through.

Remember, she will not want to be sleeping next to you and feel hammer toes with claws and calluses all over your feet, rubbing up on her soft legs and feet. It will turn her off. The SAME applies to your hands. A lot of guys get very dirty hands and nails... girls dont want your hands and fingers going in certain places when your hands and fingers are dirty or when your finger nails arent trimmed! Think about it. You know how a women's apartment or house always feels so much cozier than yours? Every blanket feels incredibly soft... the pillows melt your brain...everything smells like heaven... think of their minds that way. When they fall asleep in that soft, warm environment, they feel that way too...their bodies are that soft and warm too... and believe it or not, they want to feel that when they cuddle up with you...why do you think women like other women so often?

A lot of women will not ever say anything because they are sneaky...they want to wait a long time before they start telling you that you STINK and have bad breath and you don't take care of your body...but eventually, they will. They are always thinking it...but they rarely say it. They are hoping and waiting for you to grow up.

Metro-sexual men, look good, have style, smell good, and make an attempt at the very least, to understand their partner. This is key, especially with women. The house doesn't clean itself right? Food doesn't jump in the pan does it? Do your shirts walk to the washer and jump in? Chances are, she is doing A LOT for you, in addition to her own job, school, (s), etc. She's not asking for a metal, just for you to recognize it, verbalize it, appreciate it... AND SHOW IT! A man would want a metal, a women just wants the meaning of the metal....what does that mean? It means she is a creature driven by feeling. Although it is completely unimportant to you, it is extremely important to her.
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Make her squirting
Posted:Sep 19, 2011 10:16 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 10:42 pm
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What You Need To Know

Some women can ejaculate fluid when they orgasm, giving them great pleasure.
Stimulating her g-spot with your hands is a good way to make her ejaculate.

She'll have to relax deeply in order to release the fluid.
"The most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands. "

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.

Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you are with a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip on female ejaculation is going to leave you soaking wet


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What You Need To Know
Some women can ejaculate fluid when they orgasm, giving them great pleasure.
Stimulating her g-spot with your hands is a good way to make her ejaculate.
She'll have to relax deeply in order to release the fluid.
"The most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands. "

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.

Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you are with a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip on female ejaculation is going to leave you soaking wet.

Before you make her ejaculate
A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's glands, or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.

If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it's normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. If she tries to hold it in, she won't ejaculate; she has to let go. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she'll never try this again. Accept the golden shower, and don't freak out.

Let her go with it; eventually she'll learn the difference between the sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won't be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it.

OK, so she wants it. If you're about ready to start seeking the liquids, read on to find out what you have to do.

Make her ejaculate with your fingers
While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.

Obviously, we're not implying that you should head directly for the G-spot when you're trying to make her ejaculate. Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped," so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, with your palm facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time).

About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing.

Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.

If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my hands."

As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup. Have some towels handy.

After she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready for more.

Keep getting the goods
It might not be as easy to make her ejaculate as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuasion and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.

For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples.

You could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy-style position.

And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.

And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.
keep on simulating

Every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and make her ejaculate all over you.
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How To Master The Woman's G-Spot
Posted:Aug 11, 2011 8:09 am
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2011 8:18 am
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How to find her G-Spot?

To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go.

And so

What exactly is the g-spot?

It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it -- especially if you learn how to master the woman's G-spot effectively.

It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.
the best way to find the g-spot

First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don't stint on your foreplay first.

To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.

If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.

Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don't get discouraged if you can't get a special reaction.

While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don't get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation.

No worries -- every woman will appreciate the attention and the effort! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically.

Another way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm "tapping" motion with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones that are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the "guesswork" out of G-spot stimulation.

Even women who do not enjoy manual stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has a natural upward bend, you've got it made. Other men have to find positions that maximize penile contact with the front wall of the vagina. The "woman on top" positions and posterior (doggy style) positions are best for achieving that contact.

The only way to get G-spot stimulation in the missionary position is to prop her hips up with pillows (or with a special wedge known as "The Liberator"). Women can also intensify their ability to have G-spot orgasms by learning to contract their pelvic muscles, known as Kegel exercises.

Sex gets better with age. There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman's G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.

As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible. That's why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.
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Simple 6 - To tell if a guy really does like you >?
Posted:Jul 30, 2011 5:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2011 8:09 am
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How to tell if a guy really does like you?

Sometimes, it is hard to tell if a guy likes you. All guys have their own ways of showing their affection and interest, but there are some similarities among most guys. Some guys are straightforward with girls they like, while others will play it cool.

However, this is what I think:

1. Pay attention to how often he calls or text messages. Guys will call if they like you because they want to talk to you. A lot of guys don't talk on the phone very much unless they are interested in someone. If he sends you text messages during the day just to let you know he's thinking about you or to say "hi," chances are he likes you.

2. Notice if he is stopping by to visit places where he knows you will be. Does he come to your work, to your favorite hangout or to your softball game? A guy will make excuses to stop by places where a girl is if he wants to see her.

3. Ask yourself if he sends you flowers or gives you little gifts when he sees you. Guys want to see girls smile. If your guy is bringing you your favorite candy bar or a rose, chances are, he likes you.

4. Think about what he says to you when you are talking about a problem that could be fixed with a little help. For example, if you need car work done but you have no one to drive you to work, does the guy offer to drive you, even if it is out of his way? If you need someone to feed your cat while you are gone for the weekend, does he volunteer? Guys want to help out the girls they like. This will make a guy feel good and, in turn, he will make you feel good, too, which makes him happy.

5. Keep track of the places you go when you do things together. Is he trying to impress you? Did he remember the pizza place on Green Street was your favorite and take you there one night? If a guy likes a girl, he wants to make her happy and do things that please her. He will remember important details, and he will follow through on them.

6. Pay attention to his facial expressions and gestures while he talks to you. If he makes eye contact with you and touches you lightly while talking, he is flirting with you, which means he is interested. Look at his smile, too. A nice, genuine smile is a sure sign that he is into you
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Ever want to read his or her mind?
Posted:Jul 25, 2011 8:40 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2011 8:41 am
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Ever want to read his or her mind?

If so, read about what I think?

The simplest way to gain insight into someone’s mind (His or Her) is to ASK THEM. This might sound almost counter-intuitive to you – how will you ever read a woman’s mind if you simply ask her what she’s thinking? The secret to this is that women will forget that they ever told you these facts. It is human nature to forget what what we tell people and to retell important stories in our lives. After all, how many times have you noticed yourself saying the same things to the same people? If you wait a while before presenting it to the women you desire, they will be stunned as to how you ever managed to discover these facts about them.

Be a Little Sneaky…
Another nice way to read her mind is to ask her friends. A girl or Boy’s friends are her closest confidantes and hold a vast store of knowledge on the women/men you are after. Does it not make sense to tap into this valuable source of knowledge to help you in your endeavors to get a girlfriend? You might be wondering, how can you get a girl to spill the details on her friends? It’s very simple. Befriend her friends and prove to them that you’re not some creep who’s gonna hurt their friend, then simply point to the girl you want to know more about and ask “It’s great that we have such a strong connection, but your friend over there… I don’t get her. What’s her story?” Girls love to tell stories and will willingly share all kinds of details about their friend’s life, details that you can easily use to establish a strong connection with the girl you desire.

Tap Into His/Her Conscious Without Knowing
Learn to read body language. It is one of the most valuable skills anyone can ever acquire, since the body is simply a conduit that displays what the mind is thinking. For example, a tapping foot signals impatience and crossed arms tell you that she feels like she needs to protect herself, whereas a girl who leans in to speak to you clearly holds you in some value. There are hundreds of books out there that will teach you the different physical cues that you can read, as well as what each cue signifies but once you learn this skill, you will be able to shock and astound women as to just how much you know about how they are feeling and what they are thinking.

Cold Readings Will Make A Girl /Guy Crazy
An easy way to read a woman or man’s mind is cold reads. Cold reads are truisms, generalized statements that seem deeply personal and unique but in fact can be applied to anyone. A simple example would be “You seem to connect so well with many people, but I think that deep inside, sometimes you feel insecure about your friendships”. This is a statement that seems unique and catered almost exactly to you, but in reality can be applied to almost anyone. After all, who doesn’t feel insecure about their friendships sometimes? Simply remember that which is most personal is also most universal, and if wielded with care, cold reads can be a deadly weapon in your arsenal.

Now, you may be scoffing and saying “you aren’t REALLY reading a woman or man’s mind with these techniques!” but let me tell you this – these small additions to your game will put you drastically ahead of all the other men or women you’re competing with. How many men or women meet and connect with a man or women who seems to know what they’re thinking, what they’re feeling and simply seems so in tune with them? If you can present yourself to be that man, the women you want will inevitably be attracted to you and will feel a strong connection to you – after all, in their minds, they think you know how to read a men or woman's mind!
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
Posted:Jul 21, 2011 8:35 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2011 7:59 pm
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

What does man want and what does she want?

1. The differences between Men and Women are universal. Women all over the world complain that "He doesn't understand". "He doesn't listen". "Only time he touches me is when he wants sex". And men all over the world complain that "She doesn't want to have enough of sex." (Unless the woman is around 37 years. At this magical age women want more of sex than ever before.)

2. Women like affection from men much more than sex. They want to be hugged.

3. Men like to be logical. Women like to share and talk even if there is no point in their sharing and talking. Men need to have an objective. They need to see the point in doing something. They can't share for the sake of sharing.

4. Men tend to do one thing at a time. Women do many things at a time. Men have a tunnel vision. 95% of their attention is focused on just one thing and 5% on checking of the environment. Women are just the opposite. They are continuously taking in everything that there is in the environment whether it is useful or not.

5. Men have their own caves on which the sign states "Please do not disturb." Men like to retreat into their own world where they feel they are in control. Women also have caves but the sign on their caves is "I need to talk". When a man asks a woman what's wrong and she says "Nothing" it really means "Nothing, unless you care to listen and give me an opportunity to talk."

6. 90% of women go into therapy because they want to be listened to. They want to be asked questions. They want to feel special. Men hate to be questioned. If men want to talk they'll talk. If they don't want to talk they won't. When a man is locked in his cave, the woman thinks that something is wrong with him and goes in and asks questions. This is a wrong move for the woman to make. Men hate to be interrogated.

7. When a woman touches a man she may want to be cuddled. But for a man anywhere he is touched leads to Rome and he thinks therefore that it has to lead to sex.

8. Men want to forget the problems of the day. Women want to remember. A man will say "Forget it, it's no big deal." For a woman she will not rest till the problem is talked about. Her response to the man, who wants to just forget about it and not make a big deal out of it, will be "How can you be so insensitive."

9. Men should never tell a woman how she should feel. In fact if she is unhappy, the man needs to be unhappy with her for a while instead of offering advice.

10. If the man is at a loss for saying anything when the woman is feeling bad then instead of offering advice he could build her up a bit by saying "I know how much you work during the day to make the and myself feel happy. It must be very exhausting." Her unconscious response would be "He understands." The woman craves for understanding.

11. Women make noises to get attention. Men make noises to signal "Please leave me alone."

12. To cope with stress, sometimes, women while speaking tend to speak in long sentences and then pause. Men think that the pause is a signal for saying something. Wrong. For the woman the pause is just a semi-colon. Men need to restrain themselves in giving advice.

13. When a woman is upset and a man tries to give a solution 99% of the time her response will be "Yes....but". When she is relaxed then give the solution. After she has been given the opportunity to talk about it.

14. If a man tries to walk in a woman's shoes, she will be more willing to understand his point of view. Men tend to expect women to agree with their point of view because they feel it is obviously the best point of view.

15. Men are efficiency oriented. Must do it the easiest and fastest way. Women on the other hand feel that taking the shortest path between 2 points is boring. Women like variation. This is especially true in the bedroom. Men go by the same formula every time while women want variation. Men like uniforms and the same uniform. Men look good in a tuxedo or a suit and that's it. Every time the same tuxedo or suit. Women like to change their dress; sometimes thrice or even more times in a day.

16. Men use their brain sequentially viz. one part at a time. Where women are concerned it is usually the whole brain at once.

17. Women lower stress through talking and sharing. The collectiveness and togetherness which they share is part of their feminity. Men lower their stress by being alone. Women's attitude is that if we can't do anything about it then let's talk about it and suffer together. Men's focus is on solving the problem. And if they can't solve the problem then they make the problem disappear by forgetting about it.

18. Men always want to be right.

19. Women, unknowingly sabotage their success. They put themselves down because they want support. Women bond by putting themselves down. For example if one is late for a particular function in the office, the woman will say what an imbecile she is by not catching the right train or missing the connection because of some stupid mistake she made and so on. And other women who are also late will do the same.

20. Or if a woman is having a problem with the computer, she will call the so called expert from the computer department and tell him that she doesn't know anything about computers and that she is very happy that he has come to her rescue and thereby push the guy way up there. But when he suggests a solution which she tends to disagree with, she doesn't know how to tell him because if she does it, it makes him come crashing down and he reacts by saying that she has wasted his time. In this case one needs to resort to face saving devices like 'whatever you have suggested will I am sure help me to figure it out (even if you see no utility in the suggestion).

21. As women more and more enter into the workplace their need to being listened to and understood is not being met. The workplace is efficiency oriented. They are becoming more and more isolated. They have to raise their alone. Unseen and unheard. And this is causing them to go more and more into depression. The man focusses on work no matter what the problems are that are being experienced at home.

22. Man is efficiency oriented. He needs to feel needed. He needs problems to be solved. If there are no job opportunities or there is no effort called for to do something then the man feels depressed.

23. When women feel nurtured they feel happy. They are happy with the small things of life. Man likes to measure himself against the goal he has set for himself. Men behave like squirrels. They focus on one thing, dash towards it and once they reach there then they turn their focus on another thing and make a dash there and so on and so forth.

23. Men see the news on TV especially after coming home, because the problems they hear about and see make their problems seem that much smaller.

24.Forgiveness is the key. If someone hurts then one needn't hurt back. As Gandhi said, An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind.

25. Women give more. Men want to get more.

26. Women want flowers to be purchased by men. And they should be cut- flowers. So that the flowers die and therefore the men have to go out and purchase them again and again. They do not want the romance to go out of the relationship. Men on the other hand feel that if they have done it once there is no necessity to do it again and again. But women want things and messages to be repeated again and again.

27. Women sometimes give hints viz. On Sunday they will mention that they are getting their hair cut on Thursday. This is to be taken as a warning signal. The hair cut must be noticed. If a woman has to ask how she looks after she has had a hair cut then there is no value placed on the man's comment. It has to be noticed without being asked. Women put in much more effort in looking good. Men put in more effort in their work.

28. Man wants to be appreciated. Woman wants to be listened to and noticed. Men stress more on what they do while women stress more on their being.

29. Men think that by being flexible they are Mr. Agreeable and that is appreciated by women. Really speaking women want men to take charge and suggest something which they agree on. Mr. Agreeable is boring. The ideal metaphor is to have a man with a plan and a woman with a smile.

30. Sometimes the woman feels that she does everything according to what the man wants. At this point it is necessary for the woman to say "I'll do it this time your way but next time we'll do what I want."

31. Women are always keeping score in a relationship viz. When a woman does anything for a man she always gives herself a point. Men keep score in business. Men need to keep score in a relationship too. They need to do something for the woman so that they too score points from the woman's point of view.

32. At work the man's perspective is not to unnecessarily interfere. A man feels that if he doesn't ask then he is giving total freedom to the woman. But a woman who is a subordinate wants to be asked about her work because silence is taken to mean 'non-involvement'.

33. Women like the small stuff. Chit-Chat. Occasionally ask some personal questions. The magic words are 'What else?'

34. To free a man a woman needs to say 'You don't need to say or do anything and you don't need to feel bad.'

35. Listening creates healing.

36. Women by nature give. But when they find that they are not getting anything in return they need to give to themselves. Men have no problem in giving to themselves. Men don't give enough to others.

37. Men prefer women managers while they learn the job. After learning the job they prefer a male manager.

38. Men sprint faster. Women win the long distance.

39. In men testosterone lowers stress. In women oxytocin lowers stress. Affection, considerateness, being noticed is what produces the oxytocin in women. Therefore men need to learn new skills to produce oxytocin in women. Foreplay is more important for a woman than a man. A woman needs 20-30 minutes of stimulation. A man needs just 2-3 minutes.

40. Women want sensitive men but the danger is that if men become too sensitive then women don't like it. They want men to be considerate but not to be too sensitive just like them.

41. Don't try to fix or change your partner.

42. When husband and wife are business partners then there needs to be clear rules. There needs to be a clear demarcated time when no business is talked about.

43. Duty is important but being authentic is more important.

43a. Women can be compared metaphorically to the moon. When the moon is full, women crave for sex. When it is half-full, a woman can have it not have it, it does not matter, and when it is a new moon she couldn't care less.

Understand your partner and have great fun togather
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What Women Love & Hate About Anal
Posted:Jun 5, 2011 10:11 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 10:42 pm
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Anal sex is just one of those things: She either loves it, or she hates it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, and a fair few of them will never dare again despite their hankering to be one of the "lucky ones" who love anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.

It is true, however, that while you're trying to "get it right" there are likely to be some painful moments; however, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.

the allure of anal sex
For men and women, anal sex is a different, tighter sensation -- it’s a little bit naughty and it provides some variety to normal sex. Anal sex has a tang of taboo attached to it, though this is disappearing: The taboo status of anal sex gives it better credence among the adventuresome and timid alike, and this adds to its attraction. Once tried, however, anal sex can quickly lose its appeal for women (and some men). Here we will discuss some of the reasons why women love and hate anal sex.

why does she love anal sex?
Let’s start with the positives:

Because anal sex feels good
Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before -- it's deep inside, it's not her clitoris and it is not in her vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.

Because anal sex is naughty
People love to be a little bit naughty sometimes, and anal sex is one of those things you can do completely privately, and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your partner -- which is part of the fun. It is also often a "first time for everything" type of activity that can also be nice -- doing something you've never done before, ever.

why does she hate anal sex?
Now for what goes wrong:

Because anal sex hurts
Anal sex is not easy to master when you haven’t done it before. For a man it may seem straightforward -- in, out -- but it isn’t this simple. Women hate anal sex primarily because it hurts. It can cause cold sweats, shivers, extreme agony, and a massive chemical release into the blood stream that causes pain. This is highly unpleasant, but may be endured because A) She wants to like it; and She wants you to like it.

If you're not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimizes your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have at least a fighting chance at having another go.

Because she's worried about a mess
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and come out in a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it’s even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful that to have something ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be alleviated by using an anal douche before engaging in any anal play. Try taking a shower together too, and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.

Lubricant is essential
The anal canal does not produce its own lubricant, so it is imperative that you use a good quality lubricant in all your anal adventures. It is advisable to use a silicon-based lubricant because it tends to last longer and doesn't dry up very quickly like some water-based lubricants do. Don’t use sticky petroleum-based products like Vaseline, as they clog up the walls of the rectum and are much too sticky.

Tease her
It is important that she is very turned on before you even go near her butt. When she's turned on, her body is much more open to you than if she is only mildly turned on. She needs to be aching for you to touch her there. Then, when you start to touch her closer to her anus, she will respond with moans and groans instead of a tense grimace. Rub her body all over with oils, relax her, love her, adore her, and caress her. Get her to the point where she is begging you for it, and do this without putting a single thing in her -- tease, tease, tease. Anticipation is one of the greatest sexual tools you have -- use it to your advantage.

Condoms and hygiene
Disease can be passed through unprotected sex -- this includes anal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable. However, using condoms can be better for both partners, for other reasons. Women may not like to have a bottom full of semen, which quite frankly is a fair call. After the disruptions of anal sex, the semen mixes with the contents of the rectum and it can get a little "upset" in there. Using a condom avoids this trouble.

Condoms may also protect the penis from any stray fecal matter, though this is generally not a problem, and if it does occur can be washed off easily with no harm done. Men may like to wear a condom so they last a bit longer -- the condom desensitizes the penis somewhat, and allows for longer lovemaking.

what not to do
Do not ever put your penis into a woman’s body without her express permission. Do not treat her body like a scoring device. She is not an object for you to ejaculate in or on, and if she is kind enough to share her beautiful butt with you, treat it with respect and be happy you were allowed close enough to breathe her in at all. Don’t ejaculate inside of her if requested not to. Don’t slam, jackhammer or be forceful either.

what to always do
Always use lube. Always wear a condom if requested to without acting like a baby. Do as you are asked at all times -- anal sex is a delicate situation and she needs to be able to trust you.

Gender presumptions and anal sex
When a heterosexual couple thinks of anal sex, it is generally man-in-woman anal sex. To get a good understanding of what it's like -- and how to improve your performance -- it is necessary and helpful for you to open your mind to the possibility that anal sex is not something that only you do to your female lover, but something that you could do to each other.

Scared yet? Don’t be. If it’s good for the goose, it’s good for the gander. Anal sex takes a lot of practice to perfect, and experimenting with one another is a fantastic way to deepen your connection and enhance your sex life and relationship. It does not have to involve sex toys. You can use fingers, tongues, oils, lubes, and any number of other things. Experiment, and let your own body be loved. It will pay off.

backdoor shenanigans
Anal sex is many things to many people. Do it right, and you’ll get to do it again. Do it wrong, and you may be doomed forever. Well, probably not forever -- but until she forgets how bad it was the first time around.

There are hundreds of anal sex guides online -- explicit instructions on how to do it right. If you read at least a dozen of them, you’ll probably have a good idea about how to start off. The best piece of advice we can give you is to make sure she is hot for it before you start. Then you really can’t lose.
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What Do Women Consider Good Sex?
Posted:May 11, 2011 8:14 am
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2012 11:49 pm
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Many men wants to ask what do women conside good sex?
The simple truth is that "good sex" entails different things for different women.

Therefore, conduct an informal survey will be good, asking various women the question: "What makes for good sex?" Some of their answers may surprise you. In any case, you're bound to get a few ideas as to the little things you can do to make your woman squeal.

Here are some of comments:

"Give me a roaring fire, a glass of Merlot, a chocolate souffle, and hungry eyes, and the rest takes care of itself. You just have to give in and let things happen."
- Lori, 26, chef

"I like a man who's able to take charge while still remaining a gentleman. Someone who can be firm and gentle at the same time. Show me you're a man by treating me like a woman. You know what I mean?"
- Felisha, 28, artist

"Foreplay, foreplay and foreplay. Good sex always starts way before the actual sex even begins. The guy has to seduce all my senses first. Whisper dirty things in my ear, kiss my neck, run your fingers up and down my back, and give me goose bumps. Make my clothes come off by themselves."
- Meredith, 24, waitress

"It depends what mood my man and I are in. Sometimes slow and drawn out lovemaking is the order of the day, while other times, we just rip each other's clothes off and get it on fast and hard."
- Chantal, 29, actress

"I love it when my boyfriend teases me before we actually have sex; it always makes it so much better. Like, if he kisses and caresses the areas surrounding my breasts and vagina, such as my upper torso and inner thighs, getting me increasingly excited, before going down on me slowly. And then penetrating me with only the tip of his penis for a while, until I am so hot and bothered that it would be cruel and unusual not to penetrate me completely."
- Kristine, 20, student

"In a word: spontaneity. The best sex usually happens when you least expect it. Like if you both get really turned on suddenly while you're painting the house and you end up having sex right there on the paint-covered sheets; that's hot."
- Gina, 31, interior designer

"I like it when the guy is in tune with me. I mean, start off slow and pick-up the pace gradually. Start with a position that allows us both to get comfortable and feel each other out and go from there. Just not forcing anything too quickly, I guess. Guys don't realize how far things can go if they're patient."
- Julie, 25, kindergarten teacher

Chemistry, morning sex, props, role-playing, and more goodies.I think that good sex can be summed up as chemistry. I mean, if there's chemistry between you, you can feel each other's wants and needs, and nothing is ever forced or awkward. You just know how tender or rough to be at the various stages of lovemaking. Chemistry guides you and makes it good."
- Rain, 30, vintage clothing store owner

"I find good sex happens when the partners are attentive to each other's reactions and give each other some type of feedback. Something as simple as an enthusiastic moan or telling the other person that what they're doing feels amazing or, if they could be doing something better, suggesting that they try doing whatever they're doing a little differently. That way, both people end up being satisfied."
- Olivia, 33, accountant

"I love when my man wakes me up in the wee morning hours by caressing my breasts or my behind and starts making love to me slowly while I'm still sleepy. I feel like I'm in a dream state that I don't want to come out of."
- Vicky, 34, stewardess

"I love making my man happy by cooking him dinner in his favorite little negligee and giving him whatever he wants for dessert."
- Gabrielle, 23, travel agent

"A good sexual experience is one in which both parties just let themselves get consumed by passion and abandon themselves to the whole experience. Sometimes this can turn quite primal, I love feeling our hearts pumping and the blood flowing."
- Samantha, 35, restaurant manager

"When I find myself lying breathless in my husband's arms with my head spinning from the orgasm; that's when I know it was good."
- Laetecia, 32, homemaker

"The best sex is playful and carefree. It happens when both parties' heads are clear and just enjoying the moment."
- Alexandra, 25, marketing executive

"Getting eaten out and fingered simultaneously always works for me."
- Sandy, 18, student

"I'm a big fan of props, like getting tickled with a feather or being loosely tied or blindfolded with silk scarves. Or being painted with edible body paints. I also like a light spanking every now and again."
- Cassandra, 21, barmaid

"Rhythm. I love putting on some music and letting it set the mood and pace. If I'm feeling a bit wild, I might put on something with a Latin beat with lot of percussion, and spice things up. If I'm feeling romantic, I'll go for something smooth and sexy and enjoy a slow groove."
- Jordanna, 26, singer

"I've been with my husband for a long time and we really enjoy role playing. Nothing crazy, just a bit imaginative. It really keeps things fresh and exciting."
- Kimberly, 37, social worker

Different strokes
If you can take one thing from this little survey, it should be that no two women are exactly the same and what turns one woman on may not necessarily work for another. So, what's a guy to do? Talk to her, understand her and make her comfortable and at easy

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