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Posted:Aug 9, 2015 9:27 pm
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We have seen this done on a couple of other blogs and thought it was a good idea and a possible way for Standard Members to contact us and let us know of their interest in us since they can't do much else. So if you are taking a look at our blog, please feel free to stop by and drop us a quick message to let us know what you thought or that you were here. Thanks for reading about our adventures in the lifestyle.
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Update...Endings and New Beginnings
Posted:Nov 26, 2016 6:06 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2016 10:25 am
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Well, for those of you who follow this blog you have probably noticed that there hasn't been a post in quite a while because things have been a little crazy for me these past few months. Now that things seemed to have calmed down a bit, I thought it was time to write a post to catch you up and hopefully get this blog going again.

First of all, I want to let you all know that back in June, I had a house party with a Luau theme that went very well. In fact, it went so well for me that I can say for the first time at one of my own house parties, I actually played. Overall, it was a GREAT party.

So, as most of you have probably noticed, there is a new woman in my life (at least new as far as the last time I posted to this blog). Things didn't work out between Janie and me, so we broke up back in August and she moved back to Boise. For several months prior to our breakup, we were not getting along very well at all and were fighting a lot more than we should have been.

Even though we are back to being good friends now, it wasn't that way for a while. Within a couple weeks of the end of our relationship, she was already in another relationship and madly in love with a guy she apparently had known casually for a long time. I am not going to mince words here and say that it really hurt to see her move on so quickly from me. So one day, I decided to Facebook stalk her and her new boyfriend, at least as much as I could because we weren't friends on Facebook anymore. I discovered that the ex-girlfriend of Janie's new boyfriend is someone that I work with, named Chris. What a small world!

So, the next day at work, I decided to go see Chris. I will never forget our first real exchange. As I walked into her cubicle, she looked up at me and said, "I was wondering how long it was going to take you to come see me." As it turns out she knew exactly who I was in relation to all that had been going on because she was the one who set up his Facebook account and he never changed the password, so she had access to everything that had been going on between Janie and her new boyfriend. Needless to say we had a lot to talk about and so we did.

So over the course of 3 weeks she and I talked a lot and then some more and even more after that. It quickly became apparent to us both that we were falling in love and this was no kind of ordinary love that either one of us had ever felt before. After about 6 weeks, we decided that we just didn't like being away from each other and we were getting tired of going back and forth between places, so she and her 16-year old moved in with me. Then the question remained what to do with her house. So we decided to fix it up a bit and get it ready to rent out. We thought it would take a few months to find a decent renter, but as things have gone with our relationship from the very beginning, things just moved fast. She managed to make contact with some friends of her sons that she had known for quite a while who just happened to be looking for a relatively inexpensive place to live. So with the pieces just falling into place, we moved ahead and moved on.

So far things have been going very, very well for us both. Neither one of us knows just how to explain it all because we both know that it just doesn't make any sense, but it is what it is. Naturally, as in just about any relationship, there have been some ups and downs, some good things and some not-so-good things, but absolutely no really bad things, which is very good.

I have to admit that I never thought I would have fallen in love with and be with a woman who was not in the Lifestyle, but that is exactly where I ended up. Neither one of us are exactly sure where this journey is going to take us, but we are both committed to doing everything we can to make it work for us.

So far Chris has been to a couple of Meet & Greets, a group campout, and we hosted one house party together and so far she not run away screaming in terror, so we will just keep moving forward together taking baby steps and trying to talk about everything along the way.

Well, I guess that gets me caught with where things are now. I look forward to hearing what you have to say about all these changes and I look forward to updating you on what happens next.


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Mentors Learn from the Mentees
Posted:Jul 12, 2016 7:50 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2016 5:57 am
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In the not-so-distant past, there was a couple, T & N, that was brand new to the Lifestyle who reached out to us for advice and guidance. So we happily took them under our wings and helped them understand and accept the Lifestyle. Since then we have become really good friends with them and have really enjoyed seeing the maturation and development in the Lifestyle.

Naturally, at first we encourage them to only play together as a couple so they could get used to the whole idea of having sex with other people. They totally understood that and embraced it. Understandably, there were hiccups along the way for them, but they each reached out to us for guidance and advice and were able to work through their issues with open and honest communication, which is exactly the way it should be.

So, it came time for them to attend their first house party, which is something they were both very excited for, but were also very nervous about as well because it was something that was new to them and opened them up to the whole new dynamic of potentially playing alone, which was something they had not yet experienced. As they had done all along the way up to this point, they discussed it and came up with a set of rules that really worked well for them. When they shared their agreement with us, it was something we had not thought of before and we really, really liked it, so we wanted to be sure to share it with our readers here.

They each decided that under certain circumstances, such as being at a house party or a Lifestyle event together, they would be allowed to play alone with people that were on a list approved by the other partner. Naturally, if their partner had any issues whatsoever with anyone proposed to be on their list, they didn't get on the list and there would be no hard feelings. Sure that sounds a lot easier to say than to do, but it is the right things to do and the way it should be.

We both thought it was a great idea for people who are still new to the Lifestyle and still trying to figure things out, so we wanted to share it.

On the flip side of an "Approved Play List", most experienced couples are probably more likely to have a "Forbidden Play List" with people that their partner would not want them to play with alone for any reason.

We would both be quite interested to hear other's thoughts on these list ideas.
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Trouble in Paradise
Posted:Jul 12, 2016 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2016 6:00 am
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It has been quite a while since we have posted anything to our blog because things have been pretty crazy as Janie and I have been moving her in with me here in Idaho Falls and integrating our two households. In addition to that we have been staying very busy and very active with Lifestyle events and vanilla activities. For the most part, it has been absolutely wonderful and I can't imagine being much happier. However, I imagine it should go without saying that it has not been all sunshine and roses.

Since this is a Lifestyle blog, we will keep it limited to that, for now. It almost seems like a long time ago, but back in the middle of May, Janie and I attended School House Rock in Lava Hot Springs. It was our first Lifestyle event, other than one we have hosted, that we attended together, so we were both a little bit worried about it. In preparation for the event, we had a good amount of communication about what our "rules" were going to be. Up until that point, we had only played together as a couple, but we had decided that under certain circumstances, such as a house party or Lifestyle event that we were attending together, we could play alone and we also discussed the particulars of playing alone. We both thought we were on the same page and we were both very much looking forward to the event.

However, as you can imagine things didn't exactly work out quite as well as we would have liked them to. On Friday night of the event, which was basically a Meet & Greet and I unfortunately got wrapped up in some pretty bad group drama. The worst part of it all was that I was the cause of it all because I said something to someone about someone else. Well, naturally, it got back around to the person I said it about and she was quite hurt, as well she should have been, and it got blown way out of proportion. So for most of the night, I was in a pretty bad mood as a result of dealing with the situation and beating myself up over what I did to cause it all. As the night went on Janie had decided that she was going to have a good time regardless of the drama that was going on around us. She discovered a young man that she was really attracted to and wanted to play with, so she approached me and asked me for the key to our hotel room so she could go have some fun. I didn't react to that very well at all and basically had a fit right there in the bar. Naturally that didn't go over very well with her at all because she thought she was well within the rules of the arrangement we had discussed, but there were some finer points that we didn't actually agree on. Therefore, in my beleaguered state of mind, I overreacted setting off a chain of events that got pretty ugly.

We spent the rest of the night and most of the next day fighting pretty bad with each other. In fact it got so bad that at dinner Saturday night before the event, we actually upset some of the group members we having dinner with because we were making a scene. We both felt pretty bad about it and tried really hard to salvage what we had left of our weekend together. We went to the event and had a good time overall. In fact, towards the end of the evening, we ended up venturing into the Detention Room (the play room) and ended up playing with each other and some of our friends as well.

I guess the thing to take out of this is that communication is, once again, such an important and vital piece of having a good Lifestyle relationship. This was a very good example of how 2 people thought they were on the same page, but really weren't. Since then we have talked a lot more about it and further defined things between us and things have been much better.
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Life Changes
Posted:Mar 15, 2016 10:49 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2016 2:29 pm
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Well, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that there has been a HUGE change in my life recently, but just in case you haven’t been paying attention, I will fill you in on how my life has changed recently. As you have surely seen (unless you are blind…but then again you wouldn’t be reading this if you were…lol) the profile name has changed and there is a new woman with me on this profile. It is plain to see that I am no long with Nancy and I am now with a woman, named Janie.

Okay, I don't know how much you all know about the nature of my relationship with Nancy, so I will fill in the holes, wherever they may be. First of all, when Nancy and I first met back in 2012, we were both married and just play partners. Well, as time went on our relationship progressed into something more serious and kept progressing. I got divorced last year after being separated since October 2013 and I was hoping that Nancy would do the same so that we could be together as a traditional, committed couple, but that didn't happen. So, I decided that it was time for me to live my life for me and I started doing more things on my own and doing things for me, but continued to see Nancy hoping that she would come around and decide to be with me.

So there is that and now the next piece of the puzzle. I have known Janie as a friend for about 3 years. However, apparently, Janie has had a crush on me for quite some time, which is something that Nancy actually told me she saw as well, but I just couldn't see it. Janie never said anything to me about it out of respect for my relationship with Nancy, which she thought was a conventional, committed (at least committed by lifestyle standards). Well, it just so happens that I also felt an attraction to her, but never said anything about it out of respect for my relationship with Nancy as well. Over the course of the past couple years as Janie has been healing after the loss of Larry, I tried to be a good friend to her and support her.

Apparently, she began to question how I could understand and sympathize with some of the comments she had made, particularly on Facebook. So she began to ask questions about how I could understand some of the things she had said and how I could feel the same way she did in some ways. Now, Nancy and I never really broadcast the true nature of our relationship, but we have always been upfront and honest when asked. So I did the same thing Janie that I had done with numerous people and told her just what the true nature of our relationship was. Once Janie realized that Nancy and I were not actually in a committed relationship, she confessed her true feelings for me. Once she opened the door for me, I did the same thing and told her how I felt about her and the feelings that I had for her. After that everything has sped on down the road very fast, but it all has felt so natural to us both.

We (Janie and both knew that she was going to be at the Naughty Gras Idaho party last month and neither one of us thought it was fair to her to find out about our feelings for each other by witnessing it first-hand knowing that we were going to have a hard time hiding it from each other. So I thought the right thing to do was to tell Nancy what was going on so there wouldn't be any issues or unnecessary drama at the party that night. She decided that she could not be there for the party because she didn’t want to see the two of us together, which was understandable, and she also wanted to give us the chance to explore our feelings for each other to see if there was really something there. A couple nights after the party, I sat down with Nancy and told her that I was going to pursue a serious relationship with Janie, but that I had no intention of wanting her to no longer be a part of my life because I still love her and cherish her. After I did that and we both told our , we announced it on Facebook, making it official (because nothing is official until it is posted on Facebook) and are out in the open with our relationship and moving forward very happily.

I know that this whole situation is hurting Nancy and I do feel bad for that, but also know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is the right thing for me to be happy. One thing that I do ask of anyone that knows me and Nancy is for them to reach out to her and let her know that she has support, that people do care for her, and would still love to see her at group events and parties because she needs to know that she is loved and wanted.

One other good thing that has come out of all of this is that Nancy and her husband are working on rebuilding and repairing their relationship and their marriage. Through all of this, Nancy has learned that her husband would actually like to participate in the lifestyle with her, or at least her to events so she can continue to participate in the lifestyle, which I think is GREAT.

So there you have it. Now you know why there is a new woman standing next to me in my profile picture here and how it all happened.
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Small House Party, Round 2
Posted:Feb 9, 2016 9:30 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2016 9:15 pm
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Okay, it is time for us to catalog our latest adventure, so grab a Snickers and have a seat.

After our last small house party that went well we decided to have another one. Naturally we invited the couples that came to our first one, but none of them could make it, so we had to find different couples to invite. We ended up having J & M, B & L, and a single guy, R, that has been chasing after Nancy for quite some time.

As we did before, we started the night off playing Cards Against Humanity playing a couple rounds of the game so everyone could get the hang of the game before we switched over to our modified rules designed to help relieve everyone of their clothes.

This time we didn't get to everyone being totally naked before there was a consensus to end the game and go play, which was just fine with us, so we went downstairs and headed for the Play Room to have fun. I ended up with L because I was the only other one guy that she knew and felt comfortable with, which was just fine with me because I like her and find her quite sexy. B ended up taking care of M, which makes sense because she is a very sexy woman that everyone wants to be with. That left R and J to take care of Nancy, which is exactly what I was hoping for because I really, really wanted her to have the experience of being with two guys and I got to be there to see it. It was so fucking HOT!! She also got to see me with a woman that I enjoy being with, so it was a GREAT night for us both.

This was just the kind of positive experience that we BOTH needed.

We look forward to having more!
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Group Drama
Posted:Jan 26, 2016 1:32 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2016 2:29 pm
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Okay, so here is what happened that lead up to us leaving the "Idaho Swingers R Us" group on Horny.net. I don't normally use names in my posts, but this time, I think it is appropriate. A couple weeks ago, Red made a post titled "Come On People" where she was trying to get people motivated and active because that is something that is very important to her as she has spent a LOT of time and effort to get that group where it is today. She shoudl be proud of that. At the time, I hadn't been posting a lot because I was working 12-hour night shifts (leaving the house at 5:00 pm and not getting back home until 8:00 am) on a 4-on, 4-off rotation. So I was pretty much only posting on my days off when I wasn't doing other things like taking care of the house and trying to have some fun.

A few days after she made the post, it had gotten some attention from other people and then Nancy weighed in with her thoughts on it where she basically tried to explain that not everyone was as comfortable putting themselves out there like Red is and there were some new people in the group that might not be ready to jump into every conversation on there. Now, I didn't get a chance to read it myself because at the time I was sleeping (during the day) and after the initial explosion happened, Nancy deleted her comment because she didn't want it to cause any more issues or have things get out of hand.

However, there was one couple in the group from another state (the female half of the couple is from Ammon) that took it as Nancy attacking Red. So instead of being an adult and addressing this issue directly with Nancy, she created another post and called Nancy out by name (profile name) and slammed her for criticizing Red and she also accused Nancy of deleting her comment to cover it up. Well, once I got up that day and got wind of what was going on, I sent them some messages (privately, not in the group) trying to defend Nancy and I said some things about Red that were rather insensitive and should not have been said because they were issues that should have been handled privately with Phil and Red.

Well, when the female half of the couple from out of state read the unkind things I said about Red, she immediately picked up the phone and called Red to tell her what I had said. Naturally, Red was very offended by what I had said and she was very right to feel that way. So I sent them an email and apologized for the things I had said and explained the reasons behind them. Phil told me that she was going to leave the group. Naturally that made me feel pretty bad because she had put in a LOT of time and effort to make that group what it was, so I stewed over it for a day or two.

Well, I saw that Red had left the group and I knew that she hadn't left Horny.net altogether, so I went to her profile and noticed that she was in another group that used to be run a couple that recently moved away from the area and had turned it over to another couple that used to be Associate Moderators of the "Idaho Swingers R Us" group. Well, Red was posting there just like she always had been doing in "Idaho Swingers R Us" and then I also noticed there were quite a few people there who left "Idaho Swingers R Us" shortly after week took it over. So that is when it him me, that "Idaho Swingers R Us" is her group, always was her group, and always will be her group and that we were never going to fit in or truly be accepted there.

So I turned the group back over to her. Shortly thereafter, I saw that she created post with the title "100% Me or Us" and then I noticed that a lot of those people who had left after we took over started coming back. At that point, I knew I had done the right thing and I don't regret it at all.

Now, after the fact, I have heard from several people, including Phil and Red, who read Nancy's post and NONE of them thought it was critical of Red at all.
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Small House Party with Newbies
Posted:Jan 25, 2016 2:59 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2016 10:50 pm
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Ready for another chapter in the Adventures of NastyandtheNuke? Well...too bad because you're gonna get it anyway. lol

So shortly after our very successful New Year's Party, we were contacted by some of our good friend, K & C contacted us to let us know they were trying to put together a small party with 4-5 couples and asked if we were interested in participating. We thought it sounded like a good idea, so we said we were in. After we exchanged a few messages back and forth, it became apparent that this was going to take place at a hotel, which is all fine and dandy, but we thought 4-5 couples in a hotel room could get a little crowded, so we decided to offer up our house to hold the event in. Naturally K & C agreed and said they would put the word out to the people they had set up already.

Two of the couples were new couples that we had met at the New Year's Party. R & B is the new couple that came to the New Year's After Party and surpised us all by jumping right into it by having some good old-fashioned sexy fun. The other new couple that we met at the New Year's Party was K & A, but they didn't come to the After Party. The other new couple that K & " had arranged to come to the party was J & E.

Nancy and I talked it over and we discussed that we were a little concerned about the fact that there were going to be 2 couples that had either not had any swinging experiences at all or whose experience was very, very limited and the other couple had just had the one experience. So we decided that we were going to need some time for everyone to get to know each other before we got down to the business of playing. As soon as we said that, we both knew just what to do. We decided that we were going to start things off by playing Cards Against Humanity to give everyone a chance to just hang out, relax, have fun, and get to know each other. Of course, we had to modify the rules just a bit to turn the game into a way to get people naked.

Now before I go any further, I have to mention that E of J & E came into the house with this amazing pair of thigh-high boots that were so incredibly sexy. When they came in, naturally they asked about the need to remove their shoes because it was winter and they could clearly see by the front door that everyone else had removed theirs, but I told E that she absolutely had to keep those boots on because they were so fucking sexy!

So everyone showed up, got their drinks and snacks, and sat down to start playing the card game. We played a whole round the regular non-naughty way to give people the hang of the game and to ease tensions. It worked out really well. Then it was time to institute the modified rules. This was the first time that we had actually had the chance to play the game with modified rules, so we didn't have a really good handle on the best way to do it, so we just went with what we thought was a good idea. It turned out that it wasn't a great way to do, but it did serve the purpose and got people to start taking clothes off. When it came time for E to take something off, she decided that she wasn't quite ready to take off the corset that she was wearing, which was understandable, but what she did really surprised everyone at the table as she removed her boots, took off her jeans, and then put her boots back revealing that she was wearing a sexy g-string under her jeans. She also showed us all what an incredible ass she had. One of the other things that I learned was that it was probably a good idea to have more than just jeans and a shirt on. I didnt quite think that one through all the way.

So as the game progressed and everyone was just about undressed, we decided that it was time to do downstairs and play. Woo-hoo!! Well, somehow A of K & A ended up on the massage table with about 4 people rubbing her down. It was very sexy to watch and I am sure she enjoyed it quite a bit. It wasn't too long after the massage started that it got really sexy as E started getting A off with her fingers and then put her face down in there and ate her pussy out pretty good while the cocks started coming out and being inserted into various open holes. It was great to watch everyone down there just letting go and having fun. It was great to see both of the new couples and the other fairly new couple just jumping in with both feet and enjoying themselves and having lots and lots of sexy fun. Unfortunately, as the night went on, Nancy and I didn't end up doing anything other than oral with anyone else. Not really sure why that was, but it was still quite gratifying and satisfying to watch our guests having so much fun with each other. After all of our guests left, as we do every time that we play, we went upstairs to bed to talk about the evening with each and then to reconnect with each other. Needless to say, we were both very horny from having watching all that sex so we went at pretty damned good. Overall, it was a pretty positive experience and we had a really good time.
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New Years Party
Posted:Jan 15, 2016 8:36 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2016 4:43 am
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Ready for the next chapter in our ongoing story? Too bad because you
are going to get it anyway...lol. This year we decided that we wanted to do
something a little bit different and after the rather successful hotel party we
had in mid-December, we decided to have a New Years Party at the Clarion Inn in Pocatello. This was to be our first significant group event and, needless to
say, we were a bit nervous about it.

So we went through all the necessary things to get the event set up with the
hotel to include renting a meeting room for the party, getting our own bar and
bar staff in the party room, some finger foods for people to munch on, and one
of the members of the group volunteered to DJ the event (thanks, Kent!). Then
we went to TicketLeap to set up the event to begin selling tickets to cover our
costs for the event. It was all going remarkably well. At least so we thought.

A little over a week before the party, I was chatting with one of the ladies in
the group that I have grown quite fond of and count as a good friend and she
mentioned that she would no longer be attending hotel parties because of some things that happened with the hotel party we had in mid-December. I was pretty floored to hear that because she is normally pretty level-headed and pretty easy going, so for her to say that meant that something ruffled her feathers pretty well. I knew I needed to get to the bottom of this and figure out what happened so I could make sure to fix it for the next party right around the
corner. After she laid out her concerns, I decided to consult another female
member of the group who was much more experienced at hosting parties than we were, so I could get her take on what I was told (thanks, V!). Well, it just so
happens that she corroborated most of what I was told and added a few more
things.

We talked things over for a bit and I decided that it was time to come up with
some rules for the conduct of the After Party to address the concerns brought
to my attention (knowing that there was a pretty good chance that if they were
feelings those issue, there were more who didn't say anything). Since we had 2
2-room suites reserved for the After Party, we decided to have one of them as a
social room with only moderate playing and the other room for group play. In
addition, we laid out some ground rules that everyone had to read and sign for
when they checked in. I asked both women to review the rules that I had typed
up to be sure that I had addressed all the concerns and they were both quite
happy with them, so I felt much better and so did Nancy.

We had planned to get to the hotel a bit early so we could check in and then go
soak in the hot tub with some of the other party goers, but we ended up getting to the hotel a little bit later than we wanted to in part because we made a stop at Adam & Eve to get some lube for the After Party because it was
something we noticed we were lacking at the previous hotel party. While we were there we talked to the staff about what it was that we were going to be doing that night and there quite interested in hearing more about it.
During the conversation, they told us that periodically they get people
who come in there and ask about the local swinger scene, but they never knew
what to tell them. So we gave them some of our swinger business cards for them to hand out when that happens again. Maybe we will get some new people from it. On top of that they gave a small swag bag to give away at the party for a door prize which was pretty cool and told us that they would be willing to set up tables at future events to give stuff away and advertise. So it looks like we kind of have a sponsor. Way cool!!

When we finally got to the we found out that there was a little bit of
confusion as to exactly which rooms we were supposed to have reserved for the After Party, but they worked with us to get it all resolved. Then we figured we would go check on the party room and found that it was already set up and looked amazing.

So then it was time to get something to eat before the party, so, as usual, we headed to the restaurant in the hotel, which is actually pretty good, to have dinner with quite a few of the other group members. Then it came time for Nancy to need to leave so she could get ready, but by this time her nerves were really worked up and she was getting pretty frazzled. I hung around for a few minutes to take care of the check and finish a couple conversations. By the time I got to the room to get ready myself and check up on her, she was already in tears and was just about ready to give up because too many things just weren't going well for her. The new corset that she wanted to wear didn't quite fit and didn't have laces that were long enough to fit here, which we were worried about and prepared for by bringing a spare corset for her to wear. However, this corset had some buttons with chains for decorations and one of them came off, so she got out her portable sewing kit to do a little bit of emergency repair to it, but then she realized that she sewed the corset to the bedspread. Add that to the issues she was having with her hair and her makeup, she was a complete mess. So we had to take a time out and get her back on track and calmed down, which is something that I have become quite good at.

Now it was time for the party to begin and for our guests to begin showing up, so I had to leave her to her own devices once she was laced in to her corset and after she composed herself so I could begin to greet our guests. Once people started showing up and got settled, things just kind of happened and the rest of the party went very well. There were no issues at all to deal with and everyone seemed to be having a really good time.

The night continued on and it soon became time for the party to die down and to get ready for the After Party. We got both rooms set up and people set in each of the rooms to be "monitors" to help keep everyone in line. After we got the party wrapped up, everyone who was interested headed over to the Play Rooms. As you might guess, Nancy and I headed over to the naughty Play Room after we made sure the not-so-naughty Play Room was in good shape (thanks again, V!). I won't get into a lot of the details about what happened there, but I will mention a few things worth mentioning here. First of all, one of the single guys in the group, 'F', who is a hoot every time we get together bought some naughty Christmas presents for one of the group ladies that he knows well, 'S'. Those gifts consisted of some nipple clamps connected by a chain and a hollow strap-on. After a little bit of convincing she put it on and went at one of the other group ladies who just happened to have her ass up in the air while she was sucking on some cock. After a few minutes, she stopped and commented on just how much work it is fucking someone! You ladies just don't know..lol!! A short time and a whole bunch of cajoling, Frank decided to put on the strap-on and proceed to have quite a bit of fun with it. It was definitely one of those "you had to be there" moments.

One of the other things worth mentioning is that there was a brand new couple ('J' and 'B') at the party who had never attended a lifestyle event before. We really didn't think we would see them in the naughty room at the After Party, but not only did we see them there, they were the first ones naked and getting down to action. I must say that it was interesting to see some newbies jumping right into the deep and going for it. On top of that, ‘J’ showed some interest in Nancy, which was great, but unfortunately he was not able to maintain an erection because he had been working a lot of hours and was extremely tired. Unfortunately that was just about the only attention that Nancy received the whole night, which once again is something that I just don’t understand at all. I know I am a bit biased towards her, but I really do believe that she is an incredibly sexy woman and she is so much fun to have sex with. Sooner or later, people have to realize that for crying out loud!

Towards the end of the night as things were starting to wind down a bit, the lady friend of ours that had used the strap-on earlier, ‘S’, and I kind of ran into each other and started going at it. However right around that time, Nancy decided to go over to check out what was going on in the other Play Room (the not-so-naughty one) because she was a bit disconcerted over the lack of action coming her way in the naughty Play Room. I honestly thought she would be coming back after going over there, but she didn’t and I began to feel really bad because I was getting some and she wasn’t. So I made sure to save something for her because I knew once we were back in our room after it was all said and done, I would be making damned sure she knew just how much I love her and how much I desire her, no matter what anyone else thinks. That is one thing that is very, very important to us. After we play, we always come back to each other and re-connect with each other. It is something that we learned from a couple who took us under their wings when we were first getting started and it is something that we have tried to pass on to others.

So there you go. We had our first real swingers party and it was a big success overall and we are looking forward to the next one, so keep an eye out on our group for the announcement of the next one.
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Decorating the Christmas Tree
Posted:Dec 22, 2015 10:38 pm
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Nancy and I spent the past couple days trying to find a real Christmas tree, but were unable to find one that was even remotely acceptable for the price, so we went with Plan 'B' and went to Walmart to get this fake tree that was 50% for $20. Even though it is not a real one, it turned out okay and it is better than nothing.

Do you like how we decorate our tree?









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