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Do you know why Santa is so jolly? - 12/24/2019

Answer: Because He knows where all the naughty girls live. Merry Christmas everyone and have a fucking New Year. I know I would. LOL <br><br> ...

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Is it too hot to have sex? - 7/20/2019

We are getting triple digits heat wave here in Philly. I prefer the heat over cold but over 100 degrees, that is just crazy . But you know what? In just 5-6 more months snow is coming. <br><b

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Drugs and sex: When do we legalize Marijuana in PA? - 6/19/2019

We heard there is a bill in Harrisburg for legalizing recreational weed in PA similar NJ. Does anyone know when this will be put for a vote? <br><br> Sex is just enhanced more when I have

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Brrrr.... Its 12 degrees below freezing in Philly. How do you get warm? - 1/21/2019

To my hubby: remind me again why we moved here from California ? ...

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How about them Cowboys? - 12/1/2018

A month ago everyone is calling to fire the coach and dump the QB, With 4 games left in the season, the are now on top of their division. <br><br> Hubby still like the Eagles but they may

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Anyone knows a good swing club in NY city? - 10/27/2018

We will be In Manhattan starting next Thurs through Sunday looking to be naughty. Any one has any recommendations on a good club to go? We have our hotel around Time square. <br>&l

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Seeking advice and tips on a lifestyle cruise in Nov. - 9/1/2018

We are going to our 1st ever Lifestyle Bliss cruise with RCI Independence of the Seas in Nov. Our cabin stateroom has a balcony so can't wait to pose for some naked pictures. We plan to be very na

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Are you ready for some football? - 8/26/2018

My hubby is a die hard Eagles fan and has been flying high since they won the Superbowl for the very 1st time. I'm a Dallas Cowboys fan in Philly so I'm in the minority. <br><br> I

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Do you know that there 70 ways to keep a man happy? - 8/3/2018

The rest are 69. Happy Friday folks. <br><br> ...

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How about them Golden State Warriors? - 6/9/2018

Back to back NBA championship. Dynasty! The question now, where will Lebron James go next season? I would like to see him with the Sixers. <br><br> What do you think? <br><br>

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How about them Golden State Warriors? - 6/9/2018

Back to back NBA championship. Dynasty! The question now, where will Lebron James go next season? I would like to see him with the Sixers. <br><br> What do you think? <br><br>

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Anyone following the NFL draft? - 4/27/2018

Since my Eagles just won the Super bowl, we are picking last on the 1st round. But the pick was traded to Baltimore Ravens for more draft picks. <br><br> Who did your team pick? <br>

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Are you ready for some football? - 1/20/2018

Attended an Eagles rally last night at a local bar. Yeah Philly is underdog again VS the Vikings. Hoping the Jaguars upset the Patriot cuz we have enough Tom Brady. <br><br> Who do you thi

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Game Day ! Who do you think will win in NFC and AFC? - 1/13/2018

We like the Eagles over the Falcons and the Saints over the Vikings in the NFC. Steelers over the Jaguars and I do not want to see Tom Brady win another Super Bowl so I'm rooting for Tennessee Tit

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What are the Top 10 signs you're a swinger? - 1/1/2018

What are the Top 10 signs you're a swinger? # 10. You are constantly encouraging your to spend the weekend at friends' houses. # 9. You go to Las Vegas, but never gamble or leave the hotel. #

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Do you open your gifts at Christmas eve or in the morning? - 12/23/2017

When we were we were allowed to open just 1 gift on Christmas eve and the rest in the morning. We just followed the same rule now that we have our own family. How about you? <br><br> Happ

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Trump border wall with Mexico. How do sheep in Mexico say Merry Christmas? - 12/9/2017

How do sheep in Mexico say Merry Christmas? Answer: Fleece Navidad! <br><br> What do reindeer hang on their Christmas trees? Answer: Horn-aments! <br><br> Why is Sa

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Now that we are passed the NFL mid point season, who do you thing will go to the Superbowl ? - 11/25/2017

My hubby like the New England Patriots as Tom Brady used to live in San Mateo, Ca. where he grew up. Of course, I'm rooting for my home town Philadelphia Eagles. They have the best record in the N

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What do you call two lesbians in a canoe? - 9/15/2017

What do you call two lesbians in a canoe? Answer: Fur traders <br><br> Lighten up folks its tell a question joke Friday. What is the difference between a parsley and pussy? Answer: nobody

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What is the number of sexual partners the average American has ? - 9/1/2017

The number might surprised you. A recent study surveyed over 2, 000 people in the US and Europe. Turns out, the average American has had 7.2 partners while the average European has had 6.2. <br>

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Do you know that frequent sex is beneficial to your health? - 7/15/2017

Yes it's true ! According to a 2010 study, men who reported having sex at least twice a week were 45 percent less likely to suffer a cardiovascular disease than men who only had sex once a month or le

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What is the difference between Polyamory and Swinging in general terms? - 7/7/2017

Polyamory is a Greek word 'poly' which means many or several. Amor is a Latin word for love. By definition it means loving more than one. And here is where this relationship gets complicated. Polyamor

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Do you swing while on a family vacation ? - 7/2/2017

Our are much older and in high school. When we go on family vacation, we do things together. However at night time , we tend to separate and do adult activity away from them. One time in Hawaii, we m

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Indecent proposal: swap hubby for the weekend, should I do it? - 6/28/2017

You heard of wife swap on TV? Well, we have a lifestyle close couple friend from another site that ask us if we are willing to swap husbands for a weekend. Although my hubby is very open to the idea,

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What are some Lifestyle terminoloogy do you know? Ex. Queen of spades, Zipless Fuck,Unicorn,etc... - 6/27/2017

We oftentimes come across these "lifestyle" terminology and it would be helpful if you can to these list so that folks who are new can get acquainted. Here's some that we know:

Queen of sp

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Swing Etiquette: Where do you draw the line of getting too personal ? - 4/8/2017

Discretion is always a must but sometimes when meeting someone new for the first time, the small talks turn into personal. This is where we always have challenges as we want to keep our personal lives

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Is it Spring time yet ? Don't forget to swing forward 1 hour this weekend. - 3/11/2017

Well what do you know, that groundhog is right this time around. We had snow in Philly yesterday and another major snow storm next Tuesday.

I don't know about you, but we are so ready to swin

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Does Men fake orgasm sometimes too ? - 2/25/2017

Sorry, ladies. We're not the only members of the species who fake orgasms. Yep, sometimes Men do it as well.

We were on a house party once with multiple couples playing and this guy I was wit

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Who are you rooting for Sunday's Superbowl: Atlanta or New England? - 2/4/2017

I would like to see Matt Ryan and the Atlanta Falcons win the Superbowl. He is local to Exton, PA and since the Eagles are not there yet, I'm rooting for him to win his 1st ever Superbowl. .This is To

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How do sheep in Mexico say Merry Christmas? - 12/24/2016

Answer: Fleece Navidad!

C'mon that was funny. Ok here is another one: What do reindeer hang on their Christmas trees? Answer: Horn-aments!

Last one to get you in the spirit of the se

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Do you know why Santa is jolly ? - 12/10/2016

Answer: Because he knows where all the naughty girls live. Ho ho ho.......

Happy Holidays everyone! I'm almost done with my Christmas shopping and just mailed all Ch

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Do you love Thanksgiving holiday ? Turkey, football, and black Friday. - 11/18/2016

Next to Christmas, this is my favorite holiday. Dinner with family and friends. Watch my favorite football team- Cowboys play and beat the Redskins. Hubby is also set to go to BestBuy on Black Friday

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Do you want a pussy grabbing president or a very nasty woman? - 11/5/2016

Either way, I think we are fucked !

One thing is for sure, if you don't cast your vote Tuesday you loose your right to decide. So go out there and vote Nov 8 Tuesday.

Y'all have a sp

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What do you eat to make your semen taste sweet? - 9/10/2016

You know that saying: " you are what you eat ".

Read an article once on Lifestyle magazine that pineapple juice will improve the taste of semen. It was also mentioned that different fruits hi

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A Quote from Polyamory Pearls. What is your interpretation? - 7/9/2016

" When we realize that love is not something we give or get from others - but the very essence of ourselves - only then do we stop seeking to monopolize, limit and control it with others." That you be

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Who let the dogs out? (Dogging craze examined) - 5/22/2016

Does anyone here on this site participate in 'dogging' ? The BBC reported on a "dogging" craze, fueled by the Internet. Dogging is a British English slang term for engaging in public sex (usually in a

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Swinging while on summer vacation. Have you guys done it? - 4/16/2016

We went to Russia for vacation and met a nice local couple in St. Petersburg which is a few hours train ride form Moscow. They showed us around the Hermitage museum and all the tourist spots.



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Does cold winter weather affect your sexual drive and libido? - 2/21/2016

We live in Philly and sad to say that that groundhog lied again about early spring. We are so done with winter and we are so ready to swing for spring.

My sexual libido is like the plants, th

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Is it ok to swing on Valentines day? - 2/14/2016

Some say this is a special day only for your love one. But we beg to differ, so today we have a dinner and hot tub date with another couple. How do you celebrate your Valentines day?

“Frien

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Who will win the SuperBowl tomorrow? Carolina or Denver? - 2/6/2016

I would like Peyton Manning to win one more SuperBowl because I'm just nostalgic about quarterback at the end of their career. However If I'm betting, I would put my money on Cam Newton and the Panthe

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How many inches did you get? - 1/23/2016

I know what your thinking ..... we got about 16 inches of snow so far and it's a bit windy too. Got the snow blower out twice already and have to bribe the to do it. Definitely a hot tub weath

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Why is Santa so jolly? - 12/13/2015

Answer: because he knows where all the naughty girls live. Ho ho ho....

Dear Santa, This year please give me a big fat bank account and a slim body. Please don't mix those two up like you did

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We are planning our 1st house and hot tub party. Does anyone has an advice for us? - 12/6/2015

We have regular lifestyle friends couple to invite but we want to add some new couples and possibly one or two singles. We wanted to limit this holiday party to 10.

If anyone had hosted a ho

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What are you thankful for? - 11/26/2015

" I celebrated Thanksgiving in an old-fashioned way. I invited everyone in my neighborhood to my house, we had an enormous feast, and then I killed them and took their land."...... Jon Stewart

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Is there a clear distinction between Open Marriage, Swinging, Polyamory, Cuckoldry, and being a Hot - 11/21/2015

Whatever label we choose to have I think these are all part of our Human sexuality and the capacity of humans to have erotic experiences and responses.

Couples in open marriages may prefer di

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What are the Top 10 signs you're a swinger? - 11/8/2015

# 10. You are constantly encouraging your to spend the weekend at friends' houses. # 9. You go to Las Vegas, but never gamble or leave the hotel. # 8. You leave the at home when you go to the to

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How does Polyamory differs to Swinging? - 11/1/2015

Wikipedia define Polyamory (from Greek poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice, desire, or acceptance of intimate relationships that are not exclusive with respect to other sexu

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Swing Etiquette: How do you deal with rejection in public? - 10/16/2015

There will be occasion in swing clubs and house parties that you find yourself the object of an admiration from whom you don't return the interest. These situations can vary from someone keeps asking

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What's love got to do with it ? - 10/4/2015

It has always been said that in sex, men just needs a place while women needs a reason. This maybe true but In the Lifestyle we are doing this to explore our sexual revolution and NOT fall in love wit

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To Bi or not to Bi? Experimenting with your sexuality. - 9/18/2015

From: Lifestyle magazine

If a person has sex with someone of the same sex does that mean that person is lesbian/gay? No! People may choose to be with a same sex partner for reasons that have

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Do you know of any food for better sex? - 8/30/2015

Enough about the oysters where everyone knows of it's 'libido boosting' zinc.

Other food like avocados are also known aphrodisiac that are rich in unsaturated fats making them good for your h

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Follow up to: Why do guys like to finish on woman's face? Bukake - 8/9/2015

Well, after reading all the comments on my posting yesterday, the consensus clearly states that women does like men ejaculating on their face. They find this humiliating and degrading. <

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Why do guys like to finish on women's face? - 8/8/2015

It is not uncommon that we try to mimic what the porn industry are showing. These so called ' money shots ' men ejaculating on women's faces, breast, backside, etc....

Personally, I find it m

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Swinging VS Cheating, is there a difference? - 6/5/2015

Read an article in a Lifestyle magazine that states Swingers have a much higher success rate as it relates to marriage, than those who are not part of the lifestyle.

For non swinging relation

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How do you spot a swinger? - 5/2/2015

We were watching the A&E TV show ' neighbors with benefit' and we were surprised to learn that if you have a pineapple on the top of your food cart, you are letting people know that you are a swinger.

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I Disagree: Member Advice Lines - 4/18/2015

Wassup with the haters? We have been on this site a couple of years now and enjoyed reading the Advice Line. However I see a tremendous amount of 'I disagree' and 'Don't like' on the majority of the

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Do you abstain from sex on Good Friday? - 4/3/2015

For Catholics this is the most holy week and today is Good Friday. I normally do some fasting but was never successful to restrain from sex. LOL

So the question I want to post specially for C

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What to expect on a Lifestyle cruise? - 3/29/2015

We have signed up for a chartered Lifestyle cruise and we are just wondering what to expect? This is our 1st time doing this and we have couples already emailing us their cabin numbers.

If an

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Is it spring time yet? - 2/28/2015

I don't know about you guys but we are so ready for spring. There is no motivation to go out and meet people when it's below freezing out there.

We are originally from CA and moved here in Ph

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What would you like to see on our 1st video? - 1/3/2015

[post blog]

We recently submitted a poll located on 'my blog' asking everyone what you would like to see on our 1st video ever. We get a lot of request but mostly from our Top

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Swing Etiquette - 11/23/2014

Discretion and getting too personal. The lifestyle sometimes make it difficult to draw the line on how much personal information we should give when playing with others. We do want to develop s

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To shave or not to shave, that is the question - 10/3/2014

Most in the lifestyle shave and the one who does not are in the minority. Why is that the case? I find that woman who does not shave her pussy to be very erotic and alluring. I don't mean that it has

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To Bi or Not to Bi - 9/6/2014

If a person has sex with someone of the same sex, does that mean the person is lesbian or gay?

For folks in the lifestyle, that answer may be subjective. People may choose to be with the same

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Single men: do you think you stand out more if you are rude and email genital pics? - 8/31/2014

We see a lot of comments about couples not giving single men responses or answering their instant messages. From a couples stand point, why would we respond if you are rude yet alone keep emailing yo

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Weekend wife swap or not? - 8/22/2014

We have a regular lifestyle couple friends on another site that want to swap wives for the weekend. We have not done this before so we are wondering if anyone in the lifestyle have participated in thi

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Same room or different rooms? - 8/7/2014

At some point in the lifestyle, this is a question that comes up for Full swap couples. Some say this is a matter of preferences, others say it all depends on the level of trust, but how do you truly

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Swing clubs, private groups, or one on one meets? - 8/2/2014

This is the questions most newbies asked. When we were just starting in the lifestyle, we were apprehensive about meeting another couple we don't know. Since we were new, we got tons of emails asking

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