Short, sweet and loveable. I like to have fun. But looking for that ONE special guy. I have a surgical scar- hysterectomy scar on my bikini line, just so you know. It is pretty pronounced. PLEASE NOTE: If I am willing to meet you, I will NOT waste your time or mine... If I know (I usually do) that I think we will be a fit or not, I will tell you within the first 5 minutes of meeting you. That is IF I know, but I will let you know for sure one way or the other. PLEASE understand that that may seem a little harsh, but wouldn't you rather I tell you right away than waste time not telling you and sneaking out the back. THAT would be the worst, because they didn't have the guts to say upfront. Also, you if you don't even live within this state or within an hour of me, please refrain from wasting your time and mine by contacting me. I won't even read your email. I think long distant anything is worth nothing. If you do contact me, I prefer meeting at least within the week or I will just write you off as not interested. Do NOT contact me if you are going to be going out of town within a week of contacting me, too many have said they will get in touch when they get back and don't.

My Ideal Person Honest and one who cares (and hopefully the "Happily Ever After" we both deserve- I know this is an unlikely forum to find that, but I have a "past" that require someone to be open and nonjudgmental about. Nothing huge, but it's just easier to be upfront with something like that on a site like here instead of dating someone and finding the right time to "confess to past sins" then move forward with our lives or worse, have someone decide they can't handle that.

But in the meantime, I will pass the time going to swing parties with a partner that:
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parties to go to
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problems
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party, don't want to go to a party (don't "lead me on"), wants to leave
early/stay later, or wants to swing with a couple
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know and help you the best I can, because we came together and we are in it
together
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option to find an alternative ride home

I have to say a few things are utmost important that you need to know about me-
1. I can't deal with smokers (even those trying to quit- it is too much)
2. I have cats (this is where I am thinking of you and your possible allergies
to them).
3. I don't like to have "casual sex" at my place, I don't want to cheapen my
place, I know it seems weird, but that's my feelings on it.
4. I don't drive.
5. I am not on this site very often... at most, once every few months. So, if I
don't get back to you right away, don't feel bad, but if you don't have a pic
it is not in my best interest to waste time.

I do have a type, sorry to say, I love "looking up to my man". I love running my fingers through his thick hair. I would like him to be my age range. I am not into the "teddy bear" types, when I am embraced, I don't want to be physically lost in his embrace. Definitely, emotionally, but not physically. I am sorry if I offended anyone, but we all have our types and preferences and it wasn't meant to offend. Have a nice day!