We're easy going, drama free, clean, discrete, and play safe. Both of us are energetic and in good shape, and we're looking for similar people. He is straight but not homophobic or possessive. "Situational bi" is a great term for her. Conversation is important - We're not just looking for sex - we'd like to make a connection, and then have the option for some fun if everything else works out. We love the mental aspect of sex, and you need a good connection for that. Bodies alone don't make someone sexy. In fact, I think we're going to approach this from a different angle from now on; Instead of chatting, and then meeting with the direct purpose of having a sexy-time in the future, let's chat and meet with the intention of just hanging out - nothing else. This way we can have a good time, get to know each other with little pressure. The girls can feel free to dress more daringly than normal, the guys would feel free to look at the girls as much they pleased. Maybe we'll stay just friends for drinks and events, or maybe we'll go further. Basically building up a new group of friends that we know are kinky like us, so we have options for more fun when the time comes. By that time, we've already figured out if you're sexually compatible with us. We'd like you and feel safe around you, so I think the sparks would really fly at that stage. We're not skittish about this, nor are we that hard to get, it's just that except for some rare exceptions, we need interest on a few levels. If you can make us laugh, it'll go far. :-)

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