The life I lead now to most is considered 'boring'. I dont go out to bars or clubs, dont drink or have wild elaborate parties. In fact 90% of my time is spent doing 1 of 3 things: studying- yes im 38 and a college grad student. I love to learn what can I say. Building or coding- I program websites and applications for the web. Its exciting to me, to others not so much. Or Im working. Im self employed currently and have been almost 3 years now. My business has been pretty succesful for me, minus the last few months. When I do find time that Im able to use as 'free time', im selective. Theres so many things I enjoy doing but finding new online adventures or planning for the future of my company and a quiet night in run a close 2nd to most of them. Im a home body, undeniably so lol. But it suits me. My last gf claimed that she loved that about me but turns out its one of the main reasons she wanted out of the relationship. To each their own and its her loss. I spend time doing the things that A- Make me happier and B- Will soon be the base of a great income.

My Ideal Person Another area where I am selective not picky. I truly believe in love and having an unexplainable connection with a person. I also believ that physical attraction has little to do with the existance of either. So when considering this I would be hypcritic to say that my ideal mate should be this or that and look like this...Im trully not very concerned on that side. What I AM concerned with and explcitly is that she is imaginative, and that she is understanding, principle based, and has the heart of gold. Certain people seem to be one way when you meet. They present themselves one way then later you realize that you have no idea who this person is in your bed. Its not a good feeling. So she will also be willing to communicate and even force me to because lord knows theres times when the last thing I want is to talk. I do believe in love, the question is, do I believe that It will ever again find me. Who knows.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have always wanted to go out in to the middle of a grassy
field in the middle of no where with my partner. And have
a day/night doing whatever we want. Spending all day naked
in the field,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Brittney Spears

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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