About me: I am a 48 year old big beautiful bi-sexual Caucasian woman. My Career: I have a Master's degree in Social Work and work in welfare. Recreation: I like to read books, especially erotica and science fiction. I absolutely loved the Twilight series and I like the Sleeping Beauty trilogy. I also love going to movies. I love sci-fi movies, especially scary ghost, vampire or werewolf movies. I love music!!! I love hip-hop and EDM. My Master is very active in the local EDM scene so I often go along with him to local music events. I love pets. I own several pets in my home including cats, a dog, various lizards and snakes and a few amphibians. I am a busy wife and mother. I am not available at all times to play, chat, text or talk on the phone. My play partners must respect my home life. Type of relationship I am in: I am a married Caucasian female and my spouse is my Master. What that means is that I am in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. We have an open/poly relationship. What that means is that he lets me play with other men without him, he plays with other women without me and sometimes we play with other couples, individuals or groups together. By allowing me to play with others it has given me the opportunity to expand my knowledge and experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I have been actively participated in the BDSM lifestyle for a little over five years; however I have had a spanking fetish since I was a latent submissive tenancies as a young adult.

My Ideal Person Type of relationship am seeking:
a) I am seeking Alpha men for erotic sexual encounters. I am interested in many things from mild to wild. Vanilla encounters are just as satisfactory and fulfilling to me as kinky ones. Sexually I like oral (giving and receiving), I love getting fucked doggie style. I like anal sex.

I am also interested in group sex. I would enjoy being in a gang bang or train. Sometimes I fantasize about being fucked by a lot of men so that all my holes are sore and overflowing with cum.

I have a difficult time cumming with men. I normally can only cum with a multi-function vibrator or some other clitoral vibrator. Men that try to pressure me into cumming, or men that are obsessed about the challenge of making me cum end up ruining the sexual activity. I am very sexual and enjoy sex, even if I don’t cum all the time.

I am also seeking an EXPERIENCED Dom for some erotic encounters. I will be playing as your submissive, not your slave. Out of respect for my Master I only call him Master.

If you are not a Dom, don't pretend to be one just to get laid. I am interested in a wide variety of nasty play, not just BDSM.

Kinky fun that I Like: I have a spanking fetish, I love getting spanked. I also like to be Dominated and told what to do sexually. I like having my hair pulled during sex or spanking. I also like having my breasts and nipples played with roughly. I love being a nasty slut. I like Daddy Doms...I like to role-play as a naughty teen.

I can be a brat at times...sometimes called a Smart Ass Masochist (SAM), however I only play that way to people who understand and appreciate that type of play. Brat play can bring a certain spice and character to the play. When playing in this way I may do things like mildly smarting off or refusing to give a blow job when ordered to.

I get along best with people that are respectful, respect boundaries and safe words. I prefer intelligent men who know how to communicate.

I only play with men that honor safe words. Red means stop. I rarely utter the safe word because I pride myself in being able to tolerate a lot. However, there are times when a safe word must be used, like when there is a medical emergency or injury.

b) When I will meet you:
I prefer to chat a little bit by e-mail before meeting people; I hope that is ok with you. I have social anxiety disorder so the more comfortable I feel with someone by interacting with them on line a little bit, and then the chances are greater that I will feel comfortable to meet you. I have also been in the past so it takes me time to develop trust. I also like to explore each other’s kinky interests on line a little bit before meeting in public. That way we can ascertain if we can meet each other’s needs.

Also due to my social anxiety disorder until I get comfortable with you I am not comfortable on the phone. I just freeze up and don’t talk. So if you want quality communication with me you must be willing to e-mail me.

If your internet profile is blank, or with limited information you need to be able to communicate clearly what you are interested in and what you would like to do with me. If we cannot negotiate a scene…there won’t be any

Please provide a picture. Unlike some women I actually LOVE cock pics, so feel free to show me what u got. I will only share my face picture when I get to know a little bit about you personally. My career is in a public setting and I need to know who you are and if I can trust you.

My Master only gives me permission to meet people that I know a little bit about. I need to know who you are in real life and what you do. I can protect your privacy if you have a sensitive job or if you are married. I am very discreet. I also need to know your phone number in case I need to reach you to cancel or change our meeting time.

I will only give you my phone number when I can trust that you will be a responsible person. I often have other people or children around me so I can’t talk or chat freely. You also must respect reasonable time’s to call or text, please don’t call to early or too late. If I am not answering your text or your phone call it’s because I can’t due to other people or children being near.

MY LIMITS AND PLAY LIST
I have some definite Hard Limits that I won’t do under any circumstance:
•Bestiality:
•Boot Worship
•Branding: This is activity that I have thought about and would only do with my Master.
•Brown Showers/Scat (feces play)
•Dead people
•Foot Worship (giving)
•play
•High Heel Worship
•Housework
•Kicking
•Kidnapping
•Minor’s- I won’t play with anyone under the legal age of consent
•Mummification(saran wrap etc):
•Oral/Anal Play/rimming: (giving)
•Punching (controlled)
•Punching (beat down)
•Serving as Ashtray
•Serving as Furniture
•Serving as Maid
•Sexual Deprivation
•Straight Jacket
•Strap-on Dildos: (giving): To men
•Supplying Victims
•Unclean people: Don’t come to me with a dirty dick that hasn’t been washed and is all grungy with smegma or your wife’s pussy juice from God knows when.

The following activities I don’t like, but I am willing to try to please the Dominant (Soft limits):
•Arm/Leg Sleeves
•Catheterization
•Chosen Clothing for
•Chosen Food For
•Enemas
•Foot Worship (receiving)
•Forced Homosexuality
•High Heel Wearing: I have chronic ankle pain, so even though high heel wearing is sexy…it is not always safe or practical for me
•Homage With Tongue
•Human Puppy
•Infantilism
•Latex
•Licking
•Orgasm Control
•Orgasm Denial
•Piercing (temp)
•Pussy Worship
•Sensory Deprivation: I am prone to getting claustrophobic, so caution should be taken
•Vaccume bed: I am prone to getting claustrophobic, so caution should be taken

The following activities I am curious about:
•Asphyxiation/Breath play
•Corsets (wearing)
•Cutting
•Electricity
•Fire Play
•Full Head Hoods: I am prone to getting claustrophobic, so caution should be taken
•Given Away
•Human Pony
•Humiliation In Public
•Piercing (perm): I would only be able to do this with my Master’s permission
•Suspension
•Uniforms: I think the Dominant in a uniform for role play would be cool. I might try uniforms on special occasion, however I have limited funds and can’t just go out and buy something;

The following activities I find mildly pleasurable:
•Anal Plugs (in public under clothes)
•Begging/Pleading
•Being Gagged: Only after having played with you a while and have developed trust
•Bondage (heavy)
•Bondage (light)
•Breast bondage
•Duct Tape
•Examinations (physical)
•Exhibitionism
•Forced Masturbation
•Humiliation In Private
•Including Others
•Kneeling
•Massage(giving)
•Needle Play
•Oral/Anal Play/rimming (getting)
•Scratching
•Shaving
•Speculums (vaginal)
•Spreader Bars
•Tickling
•Wrestling

The following activities I find moderately pleasurable
•Anal Plugs
•Anal Sex: Sometimes with anal sex even though I enjoy it I kind of need to be prodded into doing it because I get apprehensive about it.
•Being Blindfolded
•Biting
•Breast Whipping
•Bruising: Only after having played with you a while and have developed trust
•Choking
•Clothespins
•Cock Worship
•Collars (wearing)
•Double Penetration
•Face Slapping
•Fantasy Gang
•Fisting: My Master and one other man tried to fist my, however my vagina is too small
•Flogging (back)
•Following Orders
•Forced Nudity
•Gags
•Hand Jobs
•Head (giving)
•Hot Waxing
•Ice Cubes
•Interrogations
•Kidnapping (role play)
•Leather Restraints
•Lecturing
•Massage(getting)
•Medical Scenes
•Mouth Bits
•Nipple Clamps
•Nipple torment
•Phone Sex
•Pussy Whipping
•Rope
•Stocks
•Swapping
•Tattooing: Only with my Master’s permission
•Teasing
•Triple Penetration
•Verbal Humiliation: Some verbal humiliation is o.k. (example: bitch, slut, naughty girl, bad girl); however not excessive. I have a hard limit on being called a cunt and a hard limit on any humiliation about my weight or appearance.
•Videoed Scenes
•Voyeurism

The following activities I find extremely pleasurable
•Age Play
•BBC (big black cock)
•Big Cocks
•Caning
•Creampies
•Daddy Play
•Fantasy
•Flogging (butt)
•Gang Bang
•Genital Sex
•Hair Pulling
•Hairbrushes
•Handcuffs (metal)
•Head (getting)
•Intricate Rope Bondage
•Marks (temporary): Only after having played with you a while and have developed trust
•Mommy Play
•Over-the-Knee Spanking
•Religious Scenes
•Riding Crops
•Sex in Scene
•Single Tail (light/sensual)
•Single Tail (moderate/heavy)
•Spanking
•Strap-on Dildos (getting)
•Swinging
•Whipping (cat o’ nine tails etc.)

I am a very complex person with a lot of interesting fantasies.
•Daddy and daughter role play- I love it
•I fantasize about being in a gang bang or train. Sometimes I fantasize about being fucked by a lot of men so that all my holes are sore and overflowing with cum
•role play- I will do it once I get to know you and have built trust from playing with you.
•Religious play- You could be a pastor or a priest
•BBC
•Big Cocks
•Therapist role play- You can be my therapist and take advantage of me
•Principle or teacher- You can be the principle or teacher and I am the naughty school girl
•Santa- You can be Santa; and I am not on the naughty list…lol
• I get turned on and feel special when a man gives me gifts
•Spanked in public
•Little Red Riding Hood and the big bad wolf-
•I sometimes fantasize about a severe spanking, paddling or caning. I would only do that with someone I had played with before and developed a lot of trust in.

I also have a few taboo/unusual fantasies that cannot be acted upon
•Aliens
•Demons/incubus/succubus
•Ghost
•Vampire

I enjoy watching pornography and reading and writing erotica.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have many sexual fantasies. One of my favorites involves
me getting gangbanged by many men until all my holes are
sore and cum is oozing out of them. :) <br> I also write erotica, the following story is one of my fantasies.
<br>A Bad Day <br> After a particularly stressful day at work I came home,
took of my shoes and just wanted to relax. Unfortunately
I kept getting disturbed by sales calls. On the third sales
call I was in a real bad mood and threw a bitch fit at the salesman
informing him I wouldn't fucking buy his product and
he needed to take me off the fucking calling list or I would
turn him in for harassment. <br> <br> When I hung up the phone I turned around and saw my man. He
asked me if I needed a spanking, I nodded yes. He told me to
go to my room, take off my clothes and stand in the corner.
I stood in time out for a few minutes, but it seemed like a
lifetime. I was already getting horny with the anticipation
of being over his lap, getting spanked. <br> When he came in he swiftly grabbed me and put me over his lap.
He started spanking me with slow gentle warm up strokes.
I raised my but up to meet his hand, by this time I was dripping
wet. He increased the intensity and tempo of the spanking
which left me occasionally crying out. He informed me that
he was spanking me for my own good, and I needed to learn to
get my behavior under control. <br> After my ass was fiery red from his hand spanking, he made
me bend over the bed. I heard him undo his belt. I shivered
in excitement. He firmly, but lovingly spanked my naughty
behind with the belt. Just when I thought I could not take
anymore he stopped and rubbed my sore butt and slipped his
finger in my soaking wet pussy. I groaned in excitement.
<br> He asking me if I needed the cane, I whispered yes. With each
stroke I felt myself falling further under his control.
I trusted him to know when I had enough, and he was responsible
and experienced enough to know how to lovingly give me the
spankings I needed. I heard the whoosh of the cane with each
stroke; I knew my butt was going to be striped with the welts
from the cane, his marks. The ones I will look at over the
following days and be reminded to keep my behavior in check.
<br> When he stopped spanking me he stuck his hard, bulging cock
in my wet pussy with full force, while pulling me hair. I
leaned back into him and he pinched my nipples, which intensified
my already euphoric sexual desire. He came deep with in
me. <br> He then had me lie on the bed while he gently massaged lotion
on my sore butt. I could feel his warm cum oozing out of my
well fucked cunt and I felt whole, complete and in control
again.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Grisom from CSI

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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