"You are some piece of work"... If I had a nickel for every time people (mostly men) described me as such, I would be the richest "piece" you ever met. But in the end, I guess that description is apt. I will not appeal to men of all types. You've gotta have a big brain and big balls to appreciate my similarly big brain and (since I don't have balls, but I do have...) my big libido. And I am a bigger Italian chic...in every imaginable way I think big; I laugh big; I party big; I cook big; I LOVE LIFE big. I am a well-educated professional and gravitate to the same. I'm open-minded to all ages, types and walks of life. But you must not be egocentric; not "all about yourself and your wounded past." You must have a deep, tremendous respect for women and you open doors, pull out chairs and otherwise show your gentlemanly manners at all times. You have a terrific and evolved sense of humor and can hold your own in a fast-paced, intelligent (and sometimes cynical) conversation. Looks /age/marital status aren't as important as your perality, sense of humor and intellect, however, good hygiene, dental care and apparel free of food stains are a must. You don't have to be wearing Gucci, but for God's sake don't show up to meet me looking and smelling like you just spent a long, hot summer day de-tassleing corn in Indiana. A man who shows self-respect shows he will respect a woman as well. I'm originally a "big city" girl so I love to get dressed up for a late night on the town, meaning dinner and dancing, complete with makeup and high heels and rhinestones- the whole nine yards. But I'm equally as happy in ratty blue jeans and barefoot to go camping all week or for a midnight walk on the beach. I'm not at all hard to please or a high maintenance "drama queen" type of girl; I'm not bitchy or whiney or weepy or easily wounded emotionally. For real. But I do have standards and if I find you to be a stupid piece of shit or someone with whom I don't think a relationship is worth pursuing, then you will know it; I won't tease you along. And I am emotionally super secure; I don't have a bat shit/crazy/stalker bone in my body, so if we don't hit it off, then no fears there. I love living in northern Michigan and all it has to offer. I am an avid "news hound" and reader, but not too terribly politically polarized or interested in debating that...(No love for Trump, though, so please, if you are...Just. Don't. ). I enjoy kayaking, swimming, camping, back riding, hanging out with my dog, going for long drives in the country...garage sales/flea markets, dining out, traveling, plays, community events. Lots of shit. I'm basically game for anything except like...cliff diving, parachuting, extreme skiing...scary stupid crap like that. Otherwise, very open-minded; adventurous, outgoing, gregarious and smart, cynical, quick-witted, (naughty minded), very sexual, big breasted Italian chic-also an excellent cook (did I already mention?) and charming hostess- who somehow truly seems to live up to the description as: "some piece of work".

My Ideal Person My perfect guy would be a well-educated professional male, ages 45+, still working or retired, matters not, whose relationship status is...well...to be considered. Obviously prefer single/divorced. (Just sayin'...)
He must be a GENTLEMAN regardless, meaning (as noted prior) that he is well-mannered, kind and deeply respects all women; no history of violent temper whatsoever. You must be a self-confident man who plays no "Look at me!" or "Poor pity me!!" ego maniacal head games. Your physical looks are not as important as your temperament, intelligence and sense of humor. And generosity when it comes to leaving a tip...that says a lot!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

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