I am an easy going man, who enjoys socialising and finding out about people. I don't think I am judgmental, rather enjoying the differences in people. I do not feel or act my age, but do believe that maturity has some advantages, especially in relationships. I took early retirement around the time of my divorce a few years ago, and since then have rather fallen into a brother/sister relationship, which does not address my need for intimacy or sexual activity. I am a sensual and tactile man, very appreciative of sharing in a relationship, and a giver rather than a taker. Can be adventurous, and expect more than just missionary position sex. I enjoy a variety of pastimes, from cinema/theatre to simply walking my dog. A coffee can be as welcome as a beer, pub food as enjoyable as a restaurant. I like to dress comfortably, so jeans and a T-shirt is great, but I am equally comfortable in a suit or DJ. Never been much into fetish gear for myself, but love seeing some styles on others.

My Ideal Person I appreciate a person for who they are, more than what they are. So expect someone who can be nice and relaxed, good conversational skills, and a pride in herself and her appearance, but certainly not someone who always has to look the part by constantly rushing to the powder room or check the mirror. I do like a woman to be feminine, prepared to dress to please/tease when appropriate, and to be confident about her sexuality, which I am happy to boost.

Naturally a share of common interests, but as I refuse to be too set in my ways, I am always open to new experiences, so happy to be shown aspects of life I have not previously experienced. Not looking for a LTR, though what happens, happens.