For you that are avoiding married men for whatever rea, please leave now. It will serve no purpose for you to continue. I am searching for one lady with brains, one that isn't concerned about my marriage status and/or is married herself. She should be one who takes it slow and is looking for "a friend" first later we can discuss "benefits"; as I am not hurrying into conquests at this time. This lady will enjoy the journey with me. You see at my time in life I am also not into racing, even in boats I prefer sail not power. I like cuddling, kissing and consider myself highly oral, both verbally and sexually; but don't believe me find out for yourself. All this can start with an e-mail, a chat or maybe even over coffee.

My Ideal Person A mature woman or couple that knows herself or themselves and what she/they desires in a relationship. A lady/couple which is not perfect since then we will be on equal footing. Someone that can dress for a night on the town and yet seem even sexier in a pair of washed out, faded and old jeans.

A lady/couple that is searching for that missing something or someone and hasn't found it or him at the garden club or the local bar. She/they would like to find ONE interesting man for fun, intellectual pursuits and of course sex.

Someone that has as much between her ears as elsewhere and knows what sensual really means.

If you are such a person, have a sense of humor and a desire to explore your feelings with someone that will not crush them. I am here waiting for your e-mail.