I want my cake and to be able to eat it too. Work, s, Husband and Life keep me so busy that I forgot how to enjoy life. I am a walking contradiction. I am a shy extrovert, I love the sun but hate the heat, I hate wearing shoes but am a shoe shopping freak. I am an easygoing compulsive perality that loves everyone and hates most. I like to keep even myself guessing. I am a fun smartass women that loves sex but down to earth able to string two words together when needed. I want to enjoy life before it is to late. Looking to have fun and make some friends along the way. If you are looking for a one night hook-up no thanks but a no strings drama free good time would be amazing. I have my flaws just like everyone else so if you are looking for miss buck 20 with no ass and DDs that is not me. If you are looking for real not gonna get much closer then me. Life is what it is so lets all be open to what it brings

My Ideal Person I want to do the little things that you stop doing once the real world interferes. I don't want to continue thinking about what i used to do. I am a open book and I am open to anything that is enjoyable. My definition of that just might be different then yours. Lately I have been wanting to find a friend that I can shop and play with. Talk to while touching, laugh with during sex. I am basically looking for the male version of me. Decent looking, outgoing, interesting people with a great sense of humor contact me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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