If all you care about is how to get into my pants... As a nerd, I am really into other nerds, geeks, intellectuals. Shit, say anything even remotely scientific and I'm yours. I love giving oral just as much as I like receiving it. In fact, most of the pleasure I get from sexual encounters is fed by the pleasure I give. I'm not horribly picky when it comes to appearances. Though I do need to be physically attracted to you still. I love meeting and getting to know new people. So if you just want this to be a one time thing, let me know. Otherwise I'll assume I can learn more about you and try to do so. If you are at all interested in who I am, want to get to know me, or just feel like reading for no fucking reason whatsoever. By all means.... I'm a student studying biomedical engineering, a published author, a tutor, and a librarian. I'm probably the biggest nerd you'll ever know! I read a lot. I'm obsessed with learning for the sake of hoarding knowledge and passing it along to others. I'm also very ambitious and try as often as I can to help others in need because I enjoy watching them succeed. Because of this, I've done a lot of volunteer work and am active in politics and have served a few elected offices at my college. At my core, I'm a progressive intellectual who focuses most of his time on investing in the future while trying to enjoy expressing myself along the way. BTW: I have a blog on here. Check it out if you feel like it ;p

My Ideal Person If it's my ideal 'playtime' person: I'd like to explore BDSM some more as I've enjoyed it in the past. Besides that, I don't really care. I'm up for a lot of things. And I enjoy spending time with all kinds of people.

Now if you're looking for something more long-term, whether that's still only sexual in nature or an actual relationship; or even if you want to know a little bit more about me. Go ahead and read on.

I'm looking for someone I can really enjoy myself with; someone who's very open-minded and not afraid to try new things with me, but also isn't always obsessed with going out on the town. As a writer, I can be a bit of a homebody sometimes, but I really enjoy going out to play tennis, disc golf, etc. I also run regularly to keep in shape. (In fact, I'm in desperate need of a tennis partner, *hint hint*)

I'd like to meet someone who can enjoy holding intelligent conversations, sometimes for lengthily periods of time. I love to teach people all the amazing things I learn every day and love to learn even more. I'm very curious by nature and try to surround myself with people who are curious too. I can talk your ear off when I get really excited about what I talk about, (which happens an awful lot); I'm a very passionate person after all! But I promise, I'm an even better listener.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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