[COLOR darkred]I am not just looking for good sex. (Though I never walk away from loving the one you’re with) Great sex by itself is like a great workout, but it is still just exercise. I believe in the chiasmus, the place of nothingness and convergence between all things. This is the basis of all profound human experience and meaning; poetry, art, violence, religion, and yes, sex. Poetry is the placement of two things next to each other, allowing each to explore each other and transgress each others limits. The result is an idea (aufhebung) that goes beyond what either is capable on its own. I am a good communicator; creative, loyal, concise, humorous and occasionally profound. I am married (17 years). I have given everything to my family. So much so, that I lost myself. I am not looking to replace or change anything in my life. I just need more. I am interested in pursuing the chiasma/transgression idea(s) through sexual relationships with others. These may be literary in nature (email), artistic (bondage, photos) or by pushing the limits of the physical. [/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman who is intelligent, curious, spontaneous, and truly values time invested in relationships, and is searching for a connection that is mind bending and enriching. I am into most kinks, and a few which are little known. Just tell me what you want.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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