Ok. I've been sitting on this one for a while, trying to figure out just what to say. I've never much cared for the term "open marriage" (or swingers, for that matter). It kind of skeeves me out. That said, it's also the most appropriate term. My wife and I are head over heels in love, and we have been for a LONG time (high school sweethearts). That said, as much as we enjoy each others cooking, we like eating out often as well. I like texting, flirting, IMing, spending time just hanging out and doing silly things. Going to movies, cooking for each other enjoying music,and soccer (a lot of soccer, to be honest), and just general dating.

My Ideal Person I'm very open minded in what I'm looking for. I'd love a girl (or the right couple) to be friends with in and out of the bedroom. If the chemistry is right, I'd love an ongoing thing. FWB that can develop into something slightly more.

I'd like someone who is intelligent, and able to converse about things. It's important to me that there be a good brain inside your body. A sense of humor is essential in life. Please have one. And.. Well... I'd like a woman who enjoys sex. A lot.

I like things a little... kinky. Vanilla is great from time to time, but sex should be fun. Some mindfucking, a blindfold, and whatever ridiculous things our minds can come up with when put together...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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