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My blog
 
Welcome to my blog, I hope you enjoy reading the mindless babble on here at all hours of the day and night.

" Don't make another person a priority, when they only consider you an option."

Feel free to read some other quotes I live by as well.

Quotes I live by
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BDSM & Swingers don't always mix...
Posted:Oct 31, 2014 12:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2014 8:23 pm
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Recently I had a meet & greet at a local venue and decided try to mix it up by combining the event with some local BDSM Kinksters. It didn't turn out the way I had hoped for. Yes everyone had fun, but some people felt uncomfortable being around each other. So I think that from now on I won't combine my events just to make sure everyone is comfortable around each other.
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New photo album
Posted:Oct 30, 2014 12:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2014 11:54 pm
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I've added a new photo album and I think some will either love it or hate it. Oh well, they express how I feel sometimes.
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Weekend plans ...
Posted:Oct 24, 2014 8:07 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2014 11:57 pm
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I do love my -free weekends Most of the time I already have prior plans made and this one is no less booked.

I am going to a swingers camp out here locally with my FWB, so if your interested in attending look it up .. Halloween Party Weekend of 24th - Pocatello

I have so much to get done before we head out there, but I'm excited and anxious at the same time. It's been awhile since I've gone to one of these. It will be nice to see old friends and meet new ones. I know my friends will be there for me if stuff should happen, but I'm prepared to deal with it accordingly.

Anyway enough babbling on here I've got laundry to finish and other stuff to do, so ya'll have an amazing weekend. I sure plan to

Be well and play safe,
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Midterm Week....
Posted:Oct 13, 2014 8:55 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2014 8:09 am
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So this week I have 2 written tests and 1 oral exam...YES I said oral ..LOL

If I survive this week I get rewarded by having a -free weekend. Whatever shall I do????
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Question ....
Posted:Oct 6, 2014 11:11 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2014 10:26 pm
12618 Views

Is it possible to bruise your cervix if you get fucked hard enough?
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A few tidbits about me
Posted:Oct 1, 2014 2:22 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2014 1:40 am
12585 Views

For this type of site it's hard to explain to someone that I'm not on here to sleep with every Tom, Dick, and Larry that hits on me ... I'm a Lady and I have standards ...

Attraction is important to me .. I can usually tell right away from just a person's picture whether or not I will be attracted to them in anyway. If I am I'll set up a meeting. Usually it will be in a public place or at a local event going on in the area. Makes it safe for everyone all around.

Chemistry is also important to me .. I will know as soon as I meet a person whether their is any between us. I'll either want to ravage them instantly or say damn and he was so attractive in his pictures.

Irregardless of how I feel I will let the other person know in a polite fashion that yes I'm interested or no I'm not interested. I know being rejected can be a blow to the ego, but no one is perfect so everyone knows that feeling I'm talking about.

That's all for now ... be well and play safe everyone ..
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All about that bass ....
Posted:Sep 30, 2014 5:36 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 7:20 pm
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So some guy at school was hitting on me today. I asked him do you enjoy women with curves and he's like "yeah, baby.. it's all about that bass..." I looked confused and he said look up the lyrics to the song and you'll understand .. And without further ado here are the lyrics so we all understand ...

Yeah it's pretty clear, I ain't no size two
But I can shake it, shake it like I'm supposed to do
'Cause I got that boom boom that all the boys chase
All the right junk in all the right places
I see the magazines working that Photoshop
We know that shit ain't real
Come on now, make it stop
If you got beauty beauty just raise 'em up
'Cause every inch of you is perfect
From the bottom to the top
Yeah, my momma she told me don't worry about your size
She says, boys they like a little more booty to hold at night
You know I won't be no stick-figure, silicone Barbie doll,
So, if that's what's you're into
Then go ahead and move along

Because you know I'm all about that bass,
'Bout that bass, no treble
I'm all 'bout that bass, 'bout that bass, no treble

I'm bringing booty back
Go ahead and tell them skinny bitches Hey
No, I'm just playing I know you think you're fat,
But I'm here to tell you that,
Every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top
Yeah, my momma she told me don't worry about your size
She says, boys they like a little more booty to hold at night
You know I won't be no stick-figure, silicone Barbie doll,

So, if that's what's you're into
Then go ahead and move along

Songwriters
KEVIN KADISH, MEGHAN TRAINOR
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Poetry - Down the rabbit hole
Posted:Sep 23, 2014 10:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2016 10:28 pm
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The night surrounds you
Cold, endless, terrifying
Wolves howl behind you
They almost have you
Keep going and never stop
Your almost there
Almost safe finally

Look there, you see something ahead
A hole over the horizon
You tumble down into it to avoid the wolves
Down the rabbit hole you go
Into a darkness that’s never-ending
A nightmare within yourself

@Darknesswins 2014
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Never change for anyone
Posted:Sep 22, 2014 7:43 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2016 5:02 pm
8573 Views
Just the other day I was talking to a friend in the BDSM lifestyle, which I am also a part of about how those within that lifestyle never do well in vanilla (non-BDSM) relationships. She mentioned a book and I will have to ask her the name so I post the name for everyone to see.

I was thinking back to all of my previous relationships and in just about every single one I gave up the swinging or the BDSM lifestyle almost entirely to appease my partner. It was always because it made them uncomfortable or they were insecure. Sometimes they would ask me to stop talking to my friends in the lifestyle completely, and I did it because I didn't want to lose them. Well each and every time I was the one being faithful and they were the ones who either cheated on me or were going to before I ended the relationship. I seriously see a pattern that I never thought to see before.

After careful consideration I have decided that I will never give up either lifestyle or my friends in it just to make my boyfriend/lover/whatever happy. I am here to meet like minded-individuals, people I can be comfortable around and just be myself, become more educated in the lifestyle, and collaborate with other Dominants and network with them on their varied teaching styles. If they don't like it to damn bad, don't let the door hit them on their way out of my life.
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Erotica
Posted:Aug 9, 2014 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2014 2:23 pm
8177 Views

I'm thinking about starting to write erotica again. So I need some opinions. Feel free to read what I've already posted on here and tell me what you think.
Yes
No
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On training wheels...
Posted:Aug 8, 2014 1:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2014 2:07 am
8074 Views

After 10 days of being single again, I went ahead and created an account on Plenty off Fish just to meet new people that I could talk to and hang out with.

I feel like I'm learning how to ride a bike all over again, but my best friend says I need training wheels for the time being.

Back in the day, I used to be able to tell a person within 10-20 minutes if I was attracted to them. Tonight I sat with someone for like 2 hours and had no clue on whether I found him attractive. The guy I met yesterday something clicked almost right away, but the environment we met in was different.

I guess practice will make perfect ......
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Concert time...
Posted:Jun 28, 2014 12:21 am
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2014 2:28 pm
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So tonight I went to a concert with my best friend, Michelle. She took me to go see Three Day's Grace with Devour the Day as their opening band. Both bands did an awesome job and I got some nice souvenirs for the when I see them again on Monday. I had an awesome time

I took a lot of videos and will post them to my personal page for friends to watch.
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