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Welcome to my blog, I hope you enjoy reading the mindless babble on here at all hours of the day and night.

" Don't make another person a priority, when they only consider you an option."

Feel free to read some other quotes I live by as well.

Quotes I live by
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Activity Bonus??
Posted:Nov 6, 2009 6:43 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2009 11:33 am
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Have you guys taken a look at this yet??? It says to earn the Activity Bonus of 1 MONTH FREE membership, just login to your account , send email to 3 people (not replies), make at least one approved blog or group post each month.

I'm going to try this and see if it works even though I'm already a Gold member.
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What is wrong with men today????
Posted:Oct 27, 2009 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2016 11:16 pm
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There are so many things that went on over the last few weeks these are a few that brought my displeasure.

1--
If there is one thing I cannot tolerate from the men on here is the fact that its over run by flakes. It gives the good men on here a bad name because it makes the women not want to meet anyone.

I speak of a man I met on here who has proven to be just that. What's the saying... "wrong me once shame on you, wrong me twice shame on me..." For me when someone has wronged me in a way that is unforgivable they are deleted from my cell phone. He has earned such a service and there is nothing he can say that will forgive his indiscretions. Not even such a handsome face and a gorgeous body will save him. Because you can be the hottest man alive and still be an ass.

2--
What do you do when a man is too eager? I mean you see him once and he calls 3-4 times daily to see if you can see him again. I'm a mother of two who works full time and my alone time is very rare. Now I did explain to him that I was in the lifestyle at that I was not looking for a relationship so he would have to share me. Is that wrong of me? To be blunt with him because I'm not ready for another relationship nor am I looking for one.

Maybe these are just some more ramblings that only make sense to me. Oh well....
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Random thoughts over my week....
Posted:Oct 25, 2009 11:42 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2016 11:11 pm
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What do you do when your boss treats you and your fellow co-workers like shit everyday you work for them. One person has already quit and more of us are wanting to as well. I'm not sure what to do anymore, because I starting to think that this job isn't worth all this stress. grrrrrr I was so glad when Saturday came about because I was ready to strangle someone.

My good friend Michelle and a new friend Aaron were waiting for me at home after work to go to a party in Idaho Falls. Imagine my surprise when my new kitten, Mars was hanging from the side of my computer chair. OMG I was freaking out! What a way to make a 1st impression eh? They both worked quickly to loosen the arm as I held onto Mars. He looked so pathetic mewling at me yet pissed at the same time. I have the marks to prove it I didn't want to leave but Luckily he seemed to be okay and my roommate was going to watch him while I was away overnight.

We were late arriving at the hotel but better late than never. They hurried off to the party while I got ready as quickly as I could. Leave it to me to make a fashionable entrance I met tons of new people and saw some I hadn't seen in years. I loved all the awesome costumes people wore, some were very creative indeed The hypnotist did a great job, I'll never look at cucumbers the same.

I'd like to thank the two handsome men who kept me occupied after the party
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How interested are you in me?
Posted:Oct 20, 2009 12:13 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 3:56 am
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I got the idea for this poll from my friend Lana. And as she did I'm putting myself out on a limb, so please be honest. Curiosity has peeked within me, so please choose an option, and click Vote.

Also feel free to comment, but if they get to offensive or to personal I will delete them.
You seem nice, let's meet and talk.
You seem like a nice gal, but I'm just not that into you.
If we happened to be in the same room, naked, I'd probably do ya.
I would rather jerk off. No thanks.
I spend my time worshiping you!
Put me down for a once-a-week hot session of sensual fun!
Yes, I'd fuck you. But then, the CRACK of DAWN isn't safe around ME.
3 Comments , 55 votes
What alcohol does to some people.. tsk tsk...
Posted:Oct 19, 2009 12:59 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2016 11:12 pm
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This weekend I was faced with a difficult choice and I know a few of you have been faced with a similar situation. Have you ever gone to a bar and met who you thought was the hottest piece o' ass in the entire place and they turn out to be a jerk in the end? I had that happen to me while I was at Charley's sad to say

He was hot as can be and I mean HAWT. Though the way he treated my friends at the end of the night was the clincher for me. Yeah I was attracted to him and was reading to jump him, but I couldn't do it because of how he behaved with 2 of my male friends that showed up. If he was going to be jealous and competitive with them the 1st night I met him would he be like that all the time???

Yes I've talked to him since then and he's apologized profusely and wants to see me sober. What do ya'll think? Give me your insight and opinion on this matter.
Yes, give him another chance.
No, he had his chance and fucked up.
Who cares about him, give me a call!
4 Comments , 30 votes
An interesting evening...
Posted:Oct 15, 2009 6:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2009 3:07 pm
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I went to my daughters tae kwon do class today and man is she going to be a quick study. Her sensei thinks she'll be a great asset to his class with her quick ability to make people listen to her. Hrmm??? Does that remind you of anyone

We stayed for not only her class but the advanced class afterward and we both enjoyed watching the older students practice their forms. There was one form in particular that I enjoyed looking at A proud papa was there with his little boy, both which were yellow belts. Leave it to me to go to a harmless class and oggle one of the men.

Anyway I think I'll shell out the $37 for the school's special uniform since it comes with some perks.
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Welcome to my ignore list....
Posted:Oct 12, 2009 6:45 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2009 8:12 pm
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The other night I got a nice one liner that simply said "wanna hook up" and I was like what the fuck? Do these guys really think that's going to be enough to make a woman jump and say "hell yeah I wanna hook up, sign me up baby!" --- NOT! ---

Gentlemen this site to the most of you may simply be a sex site, but please look up to your top left and read that it is actually a "Swingers, Free Adult Chat & Adult Personals Site" I don't see the word SEX anywhere there. What you look for and what you garner from this site is completely up to you. You reap what you sow.

So anyway me being the smart ass that I am I respond to Mr. 1-liner because he's sent the exact same thing to several of my friends on here and call him on it. His response is indignant and arrogant at best, though I was shocked he could put more than a few words together. Kudos for him! But just like any man on here whose been caught with his hand in the cookie jar he resorts to insults to make himself feel better.

All I can say isthat this asshole has earned a place in my ignore list. I hope he finds the slut he's looking for because the women I know won't give him the time of day after his actions.
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Egyptian Heaven
Posted:Oct 11, 2009 4:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2009 5:48 pm
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I was watching a movie today and one part of it asked this of both characters in the movie.

1. Have you found joy in your life?

2. Have you brought joy to someone's life?

I would like to say that I've done both, how about you?
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New pictures...
Posted:Oct 9, 2009 12:36 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2009 6:28 pm
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I uploaded some new pictures I took tonight, I hope you all enjoy them. I also tried the new feature offered to set your albums to public for all members to see. I'm going to see how the picture uploads from your phone to your profile work, I'll get to ya'll and see if its a good thing or not.
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good quote of the day
Posted:Oct 8, 2009 12:05 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2009 5:26 pm
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"Some prices are just too high, no matter how much you may want the prize. The one thing you can't trade for your heart's desire is your heart." -- Lois McMaster Bujold, "Memory", 1996
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NO CALL/NO SHOWS
Posted:Oct 5, 2009 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2009 6:13 pm
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grrrrrr.... if there is anything I can say is one of my biggest pet peeves about this website it has to be NO CALL/NO SHOWS.

If you make plans to meet with someone and something comes up then you should have the common decency to let the other person know. Especially if your traveling for any length of time and they are waiting for you to arrive. You never know they may worry that your sorry ass got into an accident and DIED!

I personally understand that things come up and if I've made plans with someone I let them know via text or phone call that I cannot meet up with them afterall. If I'm traveling and I'm going to be late same thing. Communications is UTMOST at all times people!

Now one particular circumstance everyone must remember, your cell phone is not something that lives forever. If your meeting someone write down their number somewhere and keep it in your pocket, because cell phones do die. That way you can use a *gasp* payphone to call and let your friends or possible date know what's going on.

For those who know me your aware of this fact already, but for those who don't well here's some information about me. I don't tolerate NO CALL/NO SHOWS. They get deleted from my cell phone and are told not to contact me again. Now under very very rare circumstances have I been known to give 2nd chances, but they are rare.

Okay I'm done ranting now, but I hope this has been an educational rant.
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Model Material?
Posted:Sep 29, 2009 11:51 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2009 4:14 pm
7194 Views

I was shocked to receive an email from a magazine that is requesting to take some pictures of me for their publication. I just wanted to ask you all what you think.
Yes - do it!
Yes, but read the contract with a fine tooth comb
Hell yes, if your naked can I get personal copies??
No - don't do it
0 Comments , 9 votes
A new chapter begins
Posted:Sep 28, 2009 7:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2009 11:11 pm
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This week is going to be a pretty busy one for me. I start a new job today in a career not my norm so we'll see how it goes. Also this week we find out what will happen with my and his continuous probation violations And lastly on Friday is a camp out at my friends RJ & Mike's house, which I'm excited about. My date will be arriving on Saturday since he has to work Friday night.

Wish me luck!
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