Quick to smile and laugh, and generally good natured. I am a ridiculously good looking 49-year-old male with very short gray hair that allows me to fool people into thinking I am mature. I am in a very strange place, without telling too much of her story, my wife and I have become friends and roommates, but she has not had any sexual interest in quite some time. I deeply miss intimate physical and sexual connections, and she has agreed to let me find hook-ups and or FWB. So here is me, attractive and fit older man with a decent sense of humor and unmet sexual desire. Wanting to meet other fun and attractive people for discreet encounters. Very willing to talk about and try most any fantasy. Openness and Consent are both required and very sexy. The fact that I am a guy means that orgasm usually comes pretty easily, meaning I am much more interested in learning to press your buttons. I think toys are fun, and ought to be played with often. That is what I am looking for, play, with other like-minded adults. Hook-ups, FWB if the chemistry is right, friends too. I simply cannot be anyone boyfriend or romantic interest right now

My Ideal Person Strong, Smart, Sassy and Sarcastic. You have your own things going on and just want to occasionally connect on a physical level with another human.

You are fit enough to feel confident in your own body and confident enough to ask for what you want in life. You are interested in exploring.
You like sex, you like experimenting, you know most of your likes and limits and want to explore more.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I happen to work in a restaurant, where tinder dates happen
on a fairly frequent basis. <br><br>
An attractive sexy woman walks into my restaurant, she
has a reservation for two, her date isn't here yet.
I take her to her table and idly chat with her on and off until
he arrives. He is late and trying so hard to look cool. It
is a little hard to tell sometimes, but it doesn't seem
the date is going well. They have dinner and a couple of drinks,
then he leaves. She moves up to the bar, we chat, we flirt,
she asks when I getting off work, and if I would like to
have a drink with her. We decide to continue our conversation
back at her place. <br><br>
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We start off slow, teasing, touching, and undressing.
I see the catch in her breath when I touch her favorite places.
We talk, tell each other what feels good, and listen to each
other. We move from slow to deliberate, to heated passion,
we exhaust ourselves in each other, then we bathe in the
afterglow of a long cuddle.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Helen Miram, brilliant, sexy, powerful.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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