Currently married and in an open relationship. We both are aware of each others activities. My wife is looking for someone to fill a Daddy role so if there is another couple out there that works for all of us that would be ideal. I am a straight Dominant male looking for a submissive play partner. Hopefully I will find someone I can develop a close relationship with that becomes more long term. I am not looking only for a hookup or casual sex, but I am willing to explore different avenues and incorporate those aspects if it is part of the whole dynamic. I am looking for someone local that can be available on an occasional basis to start then we can see how things evolve. I would be open to long distance relationship depending on the situation. My schedule is very versatile as I am retired and can work around many of the obligations I do have if given notice. I am totally respectful of other people's time and never pressure or bother someone to change their schedule for me and I ask for the same. I enjoy sensual play mixed in with many other types of areas to include bondage, impact, wax, knife play, role play, and a few others. I also enjoy trying new things and I respect hard limits. I have been in the lifestyle for around 15 years off and on. I enjoy the friendship aspect of things as well and the fun of many activities such as movies, hiking, gaming, etc...

My Ideal Person A partner that is open-minded, loves exploring new things, is a submissive at the core, but has a strong willpower and doesn't take shit. They express their needs clearly and if they do not know what they want in any given situation they express that as well. Sometime feelings can get confusing and I would encourage honesty and guiltless expression.

They should understand that I am married and be okay with this and understanding my family comes first, but also understands that they (my ideal person) are very important to me if we become a regular item and I would be there for them if ever needed.

Age (no minors), body type, race, financial status are all unimportant to me - it is the emotional connection I enjoy as well as intelligence and the ability to let go and have fun and trust me. I understand I have to earn that trust.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I invite another man to join on on a threesome with my wife.
We plan the scene before hand and she has no idea who it is,
could be someone she knows or total stranger. The other
guys does everything I tell him to do including making my
wife beg for more.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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