First of all, if you have no photos of yourself on your profile, I'm definitely not interested. Everyone on a "hook-up" website, needs to have nude photos on of yourself on your profile. Yes, fully-nude photos. This isn't, And for those of you who have zero photos, but enjoy peaking at everyone else's nudes, go find a porn website somewhere to jerk-off too. Because, if everyone here were like YOU and had no photos posted, even YOU wouldn't be here. Okay, rant-aside, a little about me perally. I am a "closeted" cross-dresser. Very few people who know me, know that I am a cross-dresser. Only a few of my former or current "partners" know about it, and some friends & mentors in the alternative life-styles communities. Publicly, most people would never look at me and guess that I secretly enjoy wearing lingerie & make-up...unless they really knew what to look for. I do have a few very subtle feminine-traits that have been pointed-out to me over the years, mostly by the women in my life. But, you would notice them unless you were really looking for them. Most people would be surprised by how many women are attracted to men with feminine-traits. In-fact, it was my live-in girlfriend who first made me aware of my own femininity. I'd already admitted to her that I am bisexual. But she made me aware that my body-language is like that of a girl, and there have been many other's since then, who have made similar observations, telling me, "You look at me the way a woman looks at a man", "Did you know you point your toes when you reach for something?", or, "You even walk like a girl". There have been many more similar comments made to me over the years by both men and women. So I figured, they all must be true. Since there is nothing I can do about it, I've accepted and embraced it. In the bedroom I am very passionate, sensual and submissive. I love men and women who take control, both in and out of the bedroom. Sexually, I enjoy being told what to do, because I am a "pleaser". Every man I have ever been with sexually, dominated me, and most of the women, too. I definitely have a very kinky side and have experienced many different things, including having my girlfriends and ex-wife, turning me into a cuckold, both knowingly and unknowingly. I have both exhibitionist and voyeuristic tendencies. I love to eat pussy and suck cock, sometimes simultaneously! (Yes, I have eaten creampies from a woman's pussy.) Obviously, I have very strong oral-fixations! Ideally, I'd like to find a woman, man, or couple for long-term friends-with-benefits type of play. But, I'm not apposed to NSA sexual activities, one-and-done, or drive-by opportinities. I'm always horny. If you are able to "fuck my mind", my body will follow. But, I am not a mincing, lisping, over-the-top "sissy-boy". Not there's anything wrong with that, but I'm not playing a role when I'm able to really relax and put on my full wardrobe. That's who I really am. It's the rest of the time when I feel as though I am playing, "dress-up"! LOL so it wasn't too difficult to admit that I enjoy wearing l

My Ideal Person Women, men,and couples, both female-female or male-male, who would embrace, enjoy,and encourage me in my, "feminine persona".

I'm attracted to dominant personalities and people with confidence, especially in the bedroom. I'm a total-bottom to both men AND women, so you must be the top.

I'm attracted to women and men of all different backgrounds, lifestyles, races and sexual identities, shapes and sizes.

If you just want someone to service your pussy or suck your cock, I'm your gurl.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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